Young Cub, Fresh Start

[wetnwild]

I agree with what gypsy said. I have just always liked younger guys. I would also hope they are into older women and not just looking for an older woman bc they failed at dating younger women. That being said, like she said, most of them seem to be only looking for sex.

So how about you Ronny, are you looking for a sexual experience or a relationship? And why?

[ronnybaby]

itd be fun to have a girl to do things with, i also think it would be so much more intense to be with an older woman sexually, its something i havent experienced...

i just want it to be clear im not using older women as a last resort to have sex, thats not what im about...

[lunamor]

Originally Posted by ronnybaby

too bad youre geographically challenged

Yeah - you'd be amazed how much time I spend alone because of this (certainly not because I'm bossy, have a bad character, or am just a general pain in the a..)

Anyway, that's my story and I'm s-s-s-stickin' to it!

[lunamor]

Actually, don't many relationships first start out because of sexual attraction? Nobody looks at someone of the opposite sex for the first time and thinks, "Oh yeah I want to have a deep, meaningful, long-term relationship with that person!"

First, we love with our eyes, then our *privates*, then our hearts.

Having said that, of course nobody wants to be a "hit and run" either.

[ronnybaby]

i agree fully with the previous post

[mizbehavin]

I agree Luna, but LDR's mess up that entire equation!

[houstoncougar]

we have talked about this before but I have always been attracted to younger men and like WW I prefer early to mid 20's. I have some ideas why but those are deep and intense and this is probably not the place for them. As far as the guys are concerned since I have always dated younger men I know for a fact that there are younger men who are wired for older just like I am wired for younger. They just prefer older women and have not failed at dating younger women. The sad part is that it's really hard to find them when they are surrounded by so many younger guys who just want to have the cougar experience to add to their repertoire...

[gypsyred]

I've noticed that the older I get, the younger my men get-and, well, its not like I've had a lot of men. What i mean is my exhusband was 7 years younger and now the guys I'm attracted to seem to fall into the 20-36 year range.

Lunamor, I loved that saying about loving with our eyes, our privates and then, our hearts.

[ronnybaby]

i imagine its also hard for young women to find a guy who isnt interested in just one sexual encounter...
an LDR is something i dont think i could ever do...trust issues, sexual frustration, etc.

[mizbehavin]

I never thought I would be in an LDR, but it just sortof happened I think if you have trust issues than you shouldn't be in a relationship with anyone. Every relationship is built on trust, whether near or far. Sex, not a big deal for me at the moment.