06-09-2009, 07:09 PM
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 Hello
I just found this website today by accident. There was some article on the internet about older women/young men relationships and a link to GoCougar. I've never been in such a relationship but have been always wondering how it would be like. Nowadays its not so rare to see attractive young-looking women in their 40ties or 50ties. Sometimes I catch myself staring at some nice mature woman walking on a street and I get that funny mixture of embarrasement and excitement.From one hand embarassement because I get the feeling I'm doing something inappropriate secretly taking a peek at her legs or bum, but from the other hand I feel that pleasant attraction to her. Does anyone feel it that way as well?
My attraction towards mature women started a long while ago when I was 17 I think. My father used to work with a woman called Ann. She was a normal woman in her 40ties. There was nothing extraordinary about her looks or behaviour. Just a typical woman in her 40ties you'd say. I was visiting my father quite often so I was chatting away to her on many occasions. She was always nice to me asking how things were and often joking and I thoroughly enjoyed her company. I don't think she was attracted to me. To her I was just her work colleague's kid (which isn't anything extraordinary or shocking lol). But for me there came that moment when I started to look at her as a woman and not as my dad's work colleague. I felt a bit ashamed of myself when I was secretly taking a look at her "female attributes" but found it really hard to resist. I've seen many much more physically attractive women than her but didn't feel that much attracted to them. It's just when I was in her company I felt really calm and relaxed and wasn't thinking much about anything else. It was just the way she was - a cheerful, genuine, smiling spirit hidden in a very feminine mature physique. All problems seemed to magically disappear. I was even indulging in fantasies of having a relationship or a romantic affair with her. I haven't done or said anything to her about that. They say that some fantasies should be kept as fantasies only, but I was always wondering about her reaction to that :-). Anyway, it was her who opened up my eyes to the world of older women and made me realize that they can be as much attractive (and in many cases even more) as their younger conterparts. And I didn't mean just the physical features, but also the classy atmosphere they spread around themselves, the way they talk, the way they behave and so on...Guys does anyone feel it that way as well?
I apologise for that long essay, just felt the urge to write all that lol.
Regards,
Adam
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