Is it wrong to fancy my girlfriend's mum more than her?

[kevin_curious]

I've always had a thing for older women, but at the moment, I'm dating a girl who's my age (25). The thing is that I find her mum so much sexier than her and I think she might like me too. She's absolutely stunning and so confident and fun. Whenever I see her she always looks amazing and we have so much in common and there's a spark that I just don't get with my girlfriend. She always finds ways to touch me and is really flirty. I'm finding it hard to resist! Has anyone got any advice for me? I really don't know what to do!!!

[houstoncougar]

you don't know what to do? Stop flirting with your GIRLFRIEND'S mother you ba$tard and if your girlfriend's mother is flirting with you then SHAME ON HER!!! How could anyone trust someone who would potentially hurt the person they should love most in the whole world, their own child? Dude, if you are even entertaining the thought of doing anything with this mom than you have no f'n business dating your so called girlfriend anymore. Break it off and go find a woman you are truly interested in. See that's the kind of stuff that makes me angry and that men of any age who know they are attracted to older women need to realize. You ARE ATTRACTED TO OLDER WOMEN and it is not going to just GO AWAY because you date someone your own age. Listen up mister what you have going right now is a recipe for disaster and you had better man up and do the right thing if you know what karma is good for you. If this sounds harsh to you then that's to bad for you because I won't apologize for speaking my mind on a moral issue. I think you need to face the fact that every choice you make has a consequence attached to it even if it's not something you can see, hear or touch right now and realizing that is part of becoming a real man...

[buni]

Kevin_curious..the best thing you can do is break up with your girlfriend and move on to seeking a cougar. I mean you came here so obviously you are interested in older women so do what is right and don't get between mother and daughter no matter how the mother acts. I know you don't want to hurt anyone.

Get a real woman on here my friend,young women can be a load of trouble,they all seem to be me me me,thats why i go for the real woman,who can chat without ****ging her work collegue off or a mate,young women can be very *****y,not all,but i do perfer a real conversation and a nice evening out,

Theres loads of women on here fella,your gonna have to choose??

And belive me the sex is 100% better with a mature woman then a young lady in her 20s,a mature woman know how to relax whie with a guy,

[dverdier]

I agree 100%. This sounds like bad news. I had a girlfriend once where the mom was similar to me. I stayed in the relationship a bit longer than I should have, and out of no where the fight came between the mother and daughter. The girlfriend (daughter) accused her mom of flirting with me and it just brought out a laundry list of bad experiences from the past. Needless to say, that relationship was ended by me soon after because its just not worth it to ruin a daughter's relationship with her mom, no matter how you feel about the girl. She's not disposable, and heck, she might be amazing to and for you, but you can't expect the relationship to keep going well if theres that giant bump in the road.

[sweetprince]

kevin: it's time to decide - either your gf or her mother. Sorry but it seems both relationships will be spoiled - by second woman - either by a cougar or by your gf

[nismo_matt]

Right, so you have a girlfriend, your flirting with her mother AND your on a dating site?
Wow, good luck to any women who meets you!
Seriously you need to learn to respect women. If you have any feeling for your girlfriend at all you should get out of this me before the break up a family.

[josef]

Heyy people
i have realy a serious problem in my cougare a ccount.
when i log in my account i can not read my messages and they say i have to upgrade my account.plz help

Youcef

[bayridgebabe]

what r u doing on here (this post) anyway? This has nothing to do with your problem + it is from November 2008

[engineer210]

Its perfectly normal to be in to your gf's mom more then her.