How should i go about approching a woman

[signalsman]

hi there can any one tell me how i go about attracting an older woman, or where an older woman is most likely to hang out to catch a younger guys eye...

i am moving to canada with the british army, alberta province' hopefuly i can get the woman i need there....

not sure if being from the uk wil help me much though, im from England place called Liverpool, the birth place of the band "the beatles"... could be a conversation starter with some 1 i hope lol ...

any responses would be helpfull thanks...

[signalsman]

no 1 wana help then lol

[lv625]

Hi, I don't know, if you have ever thought of just being yourself.You can meet woman any where the stores, church, walking down a street. You just have to be your self and don't be so self conscious, say hi with a smile!! You would be surprised, what a smile could do!

[signalsman]

Originally Posted by lv625

Hi, I don't know, if you have ever thought of just being yourself.You can meet woman any where the stores, church, walking down a street. You just have to be your self and don't be so self conscious, say hi with a smile!! You would be surprised, what a smile could do!

yer, i know what u mean. thanks..

its strange i have been in positions where ive thaught an older woman was flirting and wanting to take things further but at that point i just want to leve because i am nervous lol... nothing like tha has happnd since, but if it were i want to be confident enough to grasp the chance....

wouldyou say a cougar would be more likely to find a guy she knows slightly better i.e a friends son, or a next door guy. or a total stranger???????

[sbrdbnt]

As a suggestion, wait more than 40 minutes when asking for advice. Not everyone who could provide an opinion will necessarily be online.

As to where to go to attract a cougar, the bar is supposedly a good place to pick up. The theory is that if the cougar is looking to catch some hot cubs, they will go to where the hot cubs hang. Google "cougar bars <location>" but replace <location> with where you're going, and you might find some leads.

There are some websites that are devoted to reporting where and when to find the cougars. There is urbancougar.com BUT it only includes US destinations.

There are some events from a general dating site that I've gone to that seem to attract the 40-60 crowd, BUT you can't really tell who is looking for a young guy, unless of course you ask (or check their profile for any indications). I've met several older women there, but they aren't cougars.

[signalsman]

thanks for the advise pal, ill look into what you said thanks.

[bostonmac84]

Originally Posted by tarni

Hummm, I wouldn't go where the hot cubs are because there are too many young girl-things there and a Cougar would not know if you are interested in her vs. the girl-thing. Go where the Cougars are, this way they know you are there for them!

Wooow that so true, so u think if i go to a place with lots of cougars they would assume that im looking for cougars??

[bostonmac84]

thanx grat cougar tips. see the more you cougars tell us what u like the easier it gets for us to get hunted. thanx so much!! there is gonna be a huge growth of single young girls very soon in the USA or the world!!