bar scene

[lentech]

Hey hey,

Still new here, kinda shy.. profile names Lendiggity!

Anyhoo...

What ive been getting personally tired of is the bar scene... any of yall know any other locations to find the ever elusive cougar of my dreams?

I've been to the bar countless times... seems all i run into are hicks, and bubble headed airhead woman.

Yea i get it... im at a bar.... haha but still, ive been reading all over and the word on the street is this... Prime Cougar Locations... Bar's...

Now your thinking, what the hell bar's you going to man? ALL SORTS...

Is there a certian hour there particularly on the prowl? or am i just a failure lol?

Anyhoo let me know what ya think

[moopy]

they always hang out at seville quarter durring the week..
but every time i go in there all the older doods get all ****ed off and look at me crazy x.x

[lentech]

stellar thanks Tarni,

actually opened my eyes quite a bit =) said a few things i hadnt thought about! appreciate the insight!!

[greg22]

drink what they are drinking? I dont think so, would you really be interested in a guy with a girly drink?? I think not

[jurupa]

Originally Posted by tarni

Wrong bar or wrong approach? I would guess perhaps a bit of both. From what you say about only coming across bubble headed women, then go to the bars that would attract the Cougar crowd. A martini bar or a lowkey cocktail place perhaps but go dressed for the occassion and drink what they are drinking. All you might have to do is just sit there and one will come to you but dont bring a friend - DONT! If you are alone, you will be easier to approach. You should give reason for her to come to you like: "Can I buy you a drink while you are waiting for your friend?" I would say something like that, non-committal.

Dont seem too anxious, if she wants your number she will give it to you. If not then you know where to go for her to see you again.

Hope this helps

What is wrong with bringing a friend who may also be interested in older women?

[jurupa]

Originally Posted by tarni

Isnt the answer to that question in that post?

Kinda. I was under the impression that cougars don't go to bars alone but with a friend or two. I can kinda see it is easier for the cougar to approach if her target is alone. But I just feel uncomfortable and a bit out of place if I went to a bar alone. Would it work out if I came in with friends and them made my self available?

Do whatever YOU like to do, it was only a suggestion from what would make me more comfortable in approaching a guy.

I wasn't trying to be mean or anything. I sometimes have a habit of wanting to know why and not just accepting something for what it is.