Do cougars like submissive men?

Do cougars enjoy a submissive young man to please them, pamper and serve them the way they want it? Because i believe that i am would look for a cougar that can present a safe and comfortable place for her young man that is about molding me to her needs and wants. Being helpful and wanting to please is very rewarding...I was just curious.
Or if they dont i would love to know why?

Thanks!

[boredstudent89]

Everyone's different, some like that some don't, just like any personality really.

[jjay978]

i also want to know the answer. i like more dominant women.

Same, I too am into more dominant women...

I'm flexible and i really appreciate dominant women

I think it depends. Nothing wrong with being submissive and dominant. As long as you both don't want to both at the same time. You will either both be bored or struggling for control.

[moopy]

s' why it's good to be a switch...
*nod*

[elfprincess]

Many younger men attracted to older women are a tad submissive, or have tendencies, but not all. Some are totally into the whole Mistress/Slave thing - others quite the opposite.

Other men just seem to like strength and maturity and experience of life and sex. As others have said it is always a personal thing between those concerned.

Good luck to all!

[sbrdbnt]

Originally Posted by on2nees4u

Do cougars enjoy a submissive young man to please them, pamper and serve them the way they want it? Because i believe that i am would look for a cougar that can present a safe and comfortable place for her young man that is about molding me to her needs and wants. Being helpful and wanting to please is very rewarding...I was just curious.
Or if they dont i would love to know why?

Thanks!

There is no one right answer to this because, like all women, or all men, all cougars are different.

Now, with that said, cougars who deserve the name cougar, probably tend to be more on the confident/dominate side of the spectrum, and so may fit better with the men who tend to be more on the submissive side.

What you don't want to be though, is be a door mat. She'd probably get bored of you, and look for better prey.

Women no matter their age tend to prefer men that excite them. The 'bad boy' type (knowing full well the bad boys aren't a good match). Being submissive is a little contrary to this, but as I said above, everyone is different and your cougar may want a cub that is submissive.

What I found that worked for me is to allow her to prowl around and feel dominate and 'in control', but then every once in a while show her that I do have a backbone.