Virgin?

You did nothing wrong by bringing it here, not at all. But it's so easy these days to give the wrong impression. The fact that you're a virgin should not spoil your life and be an impediment in your development. I don't know all the facts regarding your life, so can only give an opinion from what you're saying. I'm no better than you. Do not think that. I'm trying to help you here as best as I can from my life's experience. I think that if you display your virginity, that will only lead to more ... virginity. Maybe you fancy the priesthood? I fully understand that you're doing your best, and try to judge and see what would be best for you. No worries. The other ladies will help you too. No offense. Honesty is always respected by a lady from a man, but try to be clever. Unfortunately the truth is not always welcome, humans are emotional creatures, and perception of the truth often overrides many things. I just hope that you meet a nice person, but I would play down the virginity. x take care and best of luck. Always feel free to ask advice on this site, most ladies are very nice. Patricia

[olderlady66]

Originally Posted by thisguy59

I'm a 21 year old male and still a virgin.

My question is, do older women find this to be a turn off? In my experience, most women my age or a bit older seem to be put off and I've even met people who refuse to talk to me because of that simple fact. Is this a problem?

certainly not with me