What do cougars think of chubby cubs?

[James42091]

Would you be interested in a cub if he was a bit bigger?

[LACougarV]

Excellent question James, and I will try my best to answer this in the mode of a cougar who has already found her cubbie....

I think there is someone for everyone, and I've learned that we mustn't assume that just because we aren't what others consider perfect, that we may not be attractive for the very body we are trying so hard to achieve....if that makes any sense.

My man doesn't like stick figure model types....frankly, his primary focus is boobies! LOL I know now that as long as I take care of myself and not try so hard to be that perfect body, he will always love me.

I know you may not see much relevance in this prior statement, but I'm just saying that maybe some lady will see your eyes...your smile....your common interests...the way you laugh...as so attractive that she sees you as the blue eyed Adonis at the gym.

When I was searching for a guy on here, I guess I was looking for someone with more....hair. But then I noticed this cute guy with not very much hair was looking at my profile. I don't know why, but I read his profile and I messaged him because I saw that we had so much in common and wanted the same things.

Now I think he's the most adorable and sexy man I've ever met. So don't let your weight challenges get in the way. After all, like it's been said before....YOU can lose weight, but THEY will still be stupid. ;-)