Where to meet Cougars?

[19yrboy123]

Just wondering even though this probably has been asked before?

Where does one go to find a Cougar. I.e. what type of establishments like bars, restaurants, shops etc?

Even though I guess could find a Cougar anywhere, but where specifically?And what type of places do they seem to be the most "on the prawl" at? If I may use such a term lol?

I'd like to hear some opinions on this topic!

[Screech_Factor]

*Facepalm*

[19yrboy123]

Originally Posted by Screech_Factor

*Facepalm*

Why Facepalm?

I think it's a legit question?

[Screech_Factor]

It`s not the question sonny jim.

[lovelyj]

It is a legitimate question. I think it's hard to know where to start looking. I wouldn't go to a bar, unless it's a hook up you want. I'd go to flim festivals, or Meetup.com groups in something you are actually interested in and meet women of like mind. Good luck! No facepalm here. Didn't like the word Prowl, tho which I think Screech meant perhaps.

[LACougarV]

Originally Posted by lovelyj

It is a legitimate question. I think it's hard to know where to start looking. I wouldn't go to a bar, unless it's a hook up you want. I'd go to flim festivals, or Meetup.com groups in something you are actually interested in and meet women of like mind. Good luck! No facepalm here. Didn't like the word Prowl, tho which I think Screech meant perhaps.

I was thinking the same, in reference to the "PROWL" word. LOL Now before you get all butt-hurt.....that was just intended as a little good-natured teasing. LOL

I've caught young men at the grocery store looking at me, and being a little shy in public, I've rarely said anything. If I were that young man, I'd be "casually" following her around (not too obvious or you'll look like stalker! LOL) to aisles with products you might want to purchase...perhaps the wine aisle...or even where the cleaning products are. Ask her what she would recommend. If it's wine, ask her if she'd like to share a bottle with you. DUH! haha

Before you attempt this approach, be sure to check out her ring finger. You wouldn't want some burly tatted guy to introduce you to the pavement! ;-P

[Talldrk22]

@LACougarV lol that's some great advise.

My problem is that as soon as they return a smile I punk out or I get really nervous. Smh ridiculous. I understand what he's saying though, granted there probably are cougars everywhere but due to fear of rejection because I wrongly assumed someone was intrested is why I despreatly search for placed where there is a mass gathering and everyone has the same intrest. 22 year old tall black men lol