Flabby cougars?

[LadyCardinal]

There's a good chance I may soon become a first-time cougar! I'm frankly nervous about revealing my body to a much younger, much more in-shape man. I wouldn't say I have low self-esteem; on the contrary, I like myself very much. I'm simply aware that my body, while not grotesque, is not as tight as it could be (having given birth notwithstanding). I'm concerned that the young man wooing me so sweetly has no clue what he's getting into.

Can flabby chicks still be cougars?

[abergirl]

Not being overly slim myself lol......I've found they really don't mind at all, doesn't seem to bother them in the slightest...we worry about it far more than they do!
My advice is to stop worrying and enjoy yourself!

[Laurad121]

I have curves and also have had 2 kids. I have found that younger men aren't looking for perfect bodies. I think it a woman's own insecurity about their bodies. Men are just thrilled to be with us and don't focus on the imperfections......

[lovelyj]

Thanks for posting that! I really wondered myself...also not my 22 year old body! Well, in retrospect, I never had the 22 year old body I remember myself to have, LoL!

I also am amazed that women of a certain age have little problem finding attractive younger men attentive to them. So cool! Hope one day I find a nice young'n who will accept me for my brilliance, humor and pretty eyes...

Well, good luck to all us "not 22 year olds!"

J

[_CougarHunting_]

Simply yes your still a Cougar.

Your interest is in a young man

There's nothing to state about the person's body or size keep's them from being of so.

I, really wouldn't worry if this guy is wooing you then it's a good possibility he already like's what he see's in you.

I, go to the gym myself but that doesn't exactly make me chuck norris or arnold or stallone. There are some pretty women and not all of them are as trim as this one gal that keep's comming. Tho that doesn't exactly make her my choice in a woman as tight as she is.

I, just say stay confident keep working out for you. Don't do it cause your doing it for some one else.

[Jypzee]

just look at the younger guys with girls their age at walmart or wherever and then note some of the younger womens' bodies..naw, these guys r not asking for perfection....regardless of the woman's age

[LocDOG]

Offensive personal attack.

[LocDOG]

Offensive personal attack.

[samathia]

Over the years I have learned there is no such thing as a "Perfect Body".
Some people like a small butt, some like it large, some like skinny girls, some heavy.
To steal a good quote. "Beauty is in the eyes of the beholder". I think a truer thing has never been spoken. Be confident in what you are...
Men of any age are going to find you attractive, just believe in yourself.
Many years ago I was in a bad traffic accident. I thought my life was over but I managed to make it all work out... Hang in there.
Sam

[RavynX]

I can say for myself that I don't mind a person's aging as it's just part of life. I wouldn't worry about it, LadyCardinal.