Older women, younger man

Interview with a Gigolo

Jeremy (not his real name) is a professional paid “escort” - A Gigolo. His specialty is older women -- catering to their wants and needs. Jeremy is 38 years old. His “clients” are generally between the ages of 50 and 70.

50plusMag.com: Welcome Jeremy. Thank you for meeting with me.

Jeremy: It’s my pleasure.

50plusMag.com: Jeremy, all your clients are past 50 and you are just 38. Is that just a coincidence?

Jeremy: No, No. I’m actually attracted to mature women. I find them easier to talk to and be with. And I must admit, the fact that they are attracted to me is great for my ego.

50plusMag.com: Jeremy, I don’t know how to ask this question tactfully. You use the term “gigolo.” Aren’t you really a male prostitute?

Jeremy: No. Not at all. And don’t worry -- I’m not offended. A prostitute is generally for sex only. Slam bam, you know. A gigolo is, I’m speaking for myself, someone who is very much concerned with giving his client pleasure. Sexual pleasure, yes—but also understanding her as a woman --- her wishes, her desires; what she likes and what she doesn’t.

Her agenda becomes my agenda. I think of myself as someone who represents the best in men in both character and sexual skill. I always conduct myself in a way so that I bring credit to myself and pleasure to my clients.

50plusMag.com: What makes you good at what you do?

Jeremy: Well, that’s a good question. How much time have you got?

50plusMag.com: Plenty. Go on –don’t worry.

Jeremy: I think the most important thing is that I am attentive. I pay attention to what the woman I’m with is saying as well as what her body language is saying. I think sometimes the body language is far more honest than the words.

50plusMag.com: What else?

Jeremy: I compliment her often. I make her feel special. It’s always about her. Never about me. I’m not the kind of guy who struts around drawing the attention. I make sure she gets it.

50plus.Mag.com: I don’t know, Jeremy. You look like a pretty spiffy guy.

Jeremy: I believe I should present myself well. I dress nicely – never in jeans, my nails are clean and manicured. I speak softly, but confidently. I’m always a gentlemen, although in the bedroom I am sometimes asked to be otherwise. (We’ll save that for another interview—editor)

50plusMag.com: Do you have any special tricks you use?

Jeremy: Yes, but I don’t think of them as tricks. It’s more like technique. I spend a lot of time looking at her eyes, rather than her other features. I try to look at her and think what she must have looked like when she was seventeen –instead of 55 or 60. I try to rekindle that feeling of youth that lies dormant in most mature women.

50plusMag.com: Do you ever talk dirty too them?

Jeremy: Rarely. Never in conversation, but sometimes in bed, if asked.

50plusMag.com: Okay Jeremy, since you brought it up, let’s talk about bed, if you don’t mind. What’s your secret?

Jeremy: No secret, really. First, I try to get her to relax and feel real comfortable. I caress her and talk softly. I gently kiss and nibble on all her sensitive places. I ask her to be honest with me and tell me her sexual fantasies. I ask for her sexual wish list, so to speak, and nod approvingly at everything she says. I tell her how sexy she looks and how she really turns me on. You’d be surprised how often I hear that the men they know rarely do this.

I take my time—do everything verrry slowly. I get her to a high level of excitement ,,, I use my tongue….my fingers. I make it unbearable. I urge her to surrender…to let go. I never let go myself until she reaches the absolute height of her sexual experience.

When we are finished I tell her what a great lover she is –the best.

50plusMag.com: Whew! I’m exhausted. So at the days end you are satisfied with a job well done.

Jeremy: Yes. I think being a gigolo is an honorable profession. The rewards are many ---not just the money.

50plusMag.com: Thanks Jeremy, for being so open with us. I think I’ve learned a few things.
Jeremy: Thank you, too. May I leave you a few of my cards?

Admin...I am not leaving this faker alone. He has not posted even ONE thing that he wrote himself, aside from an inarticulate one liner. Doesn't anyone get it?

Debbie...this guy is a fake. He posted a blog recently doing the same thing but was dumb enough to make a comment on his own blog. I mean, a lot of us do that, but we are also the AUTHOR of the blog. This guys just copies and pastes articles and excerpts from books. If you ever see his one liner comments, it reads like one of those emails you might get from a Nigerian or some other foreign scammer....very poor grammar and overly apologetic. His photo here is obviously borrowed as well. If you read all his posts, you'll see what I mean! Welcome to GoCougar! LOL :-D

Being an escort is hardly an achievement. Practically anyone can do it. I was offered a job as an escort by an acquaintance and I'm not what most people would call handsome. Like most of us, some people find me attractive and many more don't.

I didn't accept her offer of becoming an escort. Although, I was kind of flattered at the time.

The fact that you respond to the OP shows me you didn't get that he is a fake. He simply copies and pastes every single post of this length. Wait until he SAYS something. Then you'll get it.

There are things a man should be aware of while dating these ladies. Love is not age based. There are many individuals that enjoy being with older or younger people. It is a preference some people may not understand. It is not a requirement to explain why a person is infatuated with another. Connections happen, sometimes they cannot be explained.

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if women want an escort let them have one !