have a problem, need cub and cougar advice

[royalty_purdue]

Originally Posted by sexy_pleasure

My advise, becareful with him checking up on you, and you be careful with doing inocent things that could hurt others, specialy someone you care for and cares for you.

Wish you the best of luck!

^^This

She should let him vent a bit then set him straight for looking through her phone. Unless you want him acting like a puppy you have to let him feel like he has some control over the direction the relationship is going.

[houstoncougar]

Hey perdue is your first name David?

[bayridgebabe]

Houston it says Dan under his post LOL
(-Dan
User Name: 21&Confident)

[tiffanyfontaine]

Good discussion--

Just want to correct one thing--it's "moot point" not "mute point."

[bayridgebabe]

Tiffany I knew that but I didn't want to correct it as I'm sure someone would say I was being sarcastic or rude or something negative, glad you did it & not me O oh yeah

[Jypzee]

then u got to ask yourself how would u feel if the roles were reversed & even tho u broke up with him, u asked him back and he said yes & u found the sext messages on his phone? hmm? would u of thought maybe he was jumping the gun a little fast, that maybe he didnt care about u so much if he were willing to move on so fast? its a matter of perspective

[cherryaa]

I quite like the concept of "mute points"

On msn there is a little icon of a man with a zip across his mouth - that would be a great one to use now - but it's not available here! .

I agree with Jypzee on the speed front. Whilst of course he has no right's really, its not that surprising someone would be upset if the other person moved on really really fast.

It's one thing to decide that you don't want someone, but quite another to realise "and they were not that bothered about you" either ! - totally unfair but true.

[lady_emerson]

Hmmmm, OK, lets make this simple.
you go to the store and you purchase Milk, Eggs and Bread.
Have you told the company that the brand is now 100% LOYAL?
No, you have the right to variety unless you have signed an agreement.
GOD, I hate it when boys think a phone call is a contract.
Would they go to a 100% agreement? I think not!