Going Crazy!

[rphive]

I am going crazy right now. Maybe if I type out how I feel... Maybe if someone agreed with me... That my frustration right now can be sympathized with. It's Friday and I am just craving an amazing weekend with someone. Right now, I miss touching, kissing, fondling, teasing and kissing and sucking, licking and grinding...

I want that unforgettable weekend with someone. One where there are no thoughts or pretenses about the future. Two people in the moment... exploring the other's mind and body. I want for one fleeting period in my life to know and love a stranger better than anyone else. I don't even want to talk at first. We are already passionately making out within one minute of seeing each other in person. We gradually escalate the intensity until we lose control. We make passionate love and have wild sex for hours completely shedding and forgetting all the stresses of our normal lives. We stop to eat, maybe we'll cook together and play with each other like we are old lovers. We delve into each other's mind, learn what makes the other person tick. And then we go back to fulfilling our carnal desires. And when that weekend ends, we end. And we will be happy and fulfilled. Satisfied and ready to return to our lives.

Why can't I have this? I am a good looking 24 year old guy. I go to the gym 3-4 times a week and have a great body. I went to one of the world's top ranked university's and I have a good job. I should be able to go out and attract some lady to do take part. But the entire effort of finding someone, picking her up, and laying the rules will just ruin the experience. And maybe that's not what they want. They just want to hook-up - they just want to get laid. But I am not like that. I want something that even if it was short-lived, at least it was REAL. I want it to happen RIGHT NOW. I want to be leaving in 20 minutes off to some hotel, cabin, her home, whatever with the knowledge that THIS is going to happen.

Why can't I have that?

[rphive]

I'm newly single so maybe I am just saying I need a rebound

[phxgirl1]

For what you're seeking is between 2 people that know and respect each other. That respect and knowing doesn't happen in an hour.

You're on the rebound and having cravings that a one night or weekend fling isn't going to make you feel any better.

Best to let yourself take some time to get over it before you embark on anything new.

It's good to type out things, just don't think that this is a hookup site since we're older women. We do have feelings and like to know our friends and partners.

[_CougarHunting_]

She is right tho.

Do take time to get over your past feeling's for who you were once with first.

Then look on words.

Although a place to chat with people on this website would be nice tho lol.

[houstoncougar]

I think a lot of men and women have this kind of fantasy but in reality when you don't know the other person you could be dealing with a freakin lunatic. This would be more like a movie don't you think?

[Laurad121]

Phxgirl1 is right. You can't have that happen in an hour. Great love making takes a connection between two people. That being said, the intimacy with my younger boyfriend is hotter and more wonderful with each passing month we are together so I know from experience....