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Old 04-13-2011, 01:49 AM
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I'm 6 ft tall, brown eyes, handsome guitar playing former Military intelligent guy. I should be the all-American stud...but I have this horrible red hair. Why are girls so turned off by red haired guys?

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That's me.
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Old 04-13-2011, 01:53 AM
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I love red hair and I like your second pic hairdo much better.
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I appreciate that, but why does it turn off so many women?
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Red hair and brown eyes is a nice combination and a very nice smile to top it off!
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I do ot think the problem is your red hair...
I think you need to be more comfortable with it.
Little tan would'nt hurt. <
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Old 04-13-2011, 03:33 AM
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Little tan would'nt hurt. <
Most redheads can't tan easily...their skin is too fair.

And there is nothing wrong with red-headed men...Kevin McKidd from Grey's Anatomy is seriously hot.
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I've never heard of a "military intelligent" guy. It's always been a "military intelligence" unit or troop which an individual would never publicize themselves. Hmm.
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Old 04-13-2011, 07:25 AM
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I'll agree with Houston, I think the 2nd pic, or 2nd hair do, looks alot smarter.

I wonder if this is an attempt at bumping your chances up, or are you genuinely having issues, if the prior applies, then I don't see why.

Good things come to those who wait, and I've been waiting ages now =o)
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Old 04-13-2011, 09:07 AM
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I've never heard of a "military intelligent" guy. It's always been a "military intelligence" unit or troop which an individual would never publicize themselves. Hmm.
I should have used a comma. I am former Military, and I am intelligent. It seems the girls find me to be more of a turn-off type of guy because I'm not rapping and text messaging 24/7. But in the end, I honestly think they just truly are not attracted to my hair.

I've never had a girl think I was "hot". That hurts a 22 year old, especially when all around me guys who are in and out of jail and who do drugs get the girls and I'm all alone.
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Old 04-13-2011, 11:02 AM
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If you're that self-conscious about your hair, have a little color added to it, so you can tone it down a bit.
Millions of men have their hair colored or weaved today. It's no big deal. A good hair stylist can tone down the red shade and add just a hint of light brown.

I would go to a good salon near you and talk to a hair colorist.

Good luck.
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