needhelp lonely husband

[NEEDHELP]

Not really looking but if it happens it happens .I just need someone to talk to Feel mistreated and unappreciated I do like older ladies cougars very mature prepared unlike today's young crowd really not much to me 38 6 foot 250 black American feel like talking scream at me ..I like white and black cougars lol lol.

[phxgirl1]

Have you been seeking marriage counseling? That's where you should be, not on a dating site such as GC.

We as older women are not here nor licensed to be your counselor. You need professionals to deal with your marriage.

You should get your life together before seeking other women.

It's so sad you're in this situation. But you must deal with it and when it's over then move on to other pastures when you're in a better frame of mind to chat and date.

Good luck in dealing with your life.

[tiffanyfontaine]

I agree completely, phxgirl!

[whynotbehappy]

You cannot heal any relationship unless you both are willing to work at it. Talk to your wife, then make your decisions. Even after that, you need time to heal before you get involved with anyone else. Good luck!! Try to remember what attracted you in the first place and see if you can find the spark again.