"Awww, you're just a baby!!"

[tony343]

Younger men...ever get this from an older woman when she finds out your age? LOL.

Question to the Cougars, is this a "Hint" saying "You're too young for me, I'm not interested"

Or is this a "Green Light" to go ahead and pursue, becuase it's more of a flirtaceous comment instead of a "hint"?

[xoticbrandi]

That's a tough question, Tony343. I know when I say it, I mean it if the guy
is 18 or younger. But if he's 21, I don't even utter the words. Every lady
has her own set of rules to live by and she has to "test the waters" a bit to
see where you're coming from. I wouldn't even worry about it really. If a
Cougar is not interested, she will tell you straight out. As for a greeeeen
light, you had her at "hello" if she's interested!

[joker]

the same thing happens to me to im sick of it

Wow, cougars at age 23? phew.......

I am fifty and when a cougar my age states, "Aww, youre just a baby" it usually means, "You have some learning to do". Could be I want to teach you or just that someone needs to teach you. I would suppose it depends on how YOU react to the "awww..." dont you think?

[laidback_styles]

yeah, i dont really mind it though...im 21 and look a lil younger than that

[nismo_matt]

i know the feeling buddy, i guess you just ahve to keep looking

[ladybug]

I'm a 68 year young woman and just had a really good time with a 28 year old guy. I thought I would be teaching HIM, but he was absolutely the best I ever had! So, mayby you ought to try it before jumping to conclusions!! Yum!

Dear Tony:

I feel in my heart that men 21 and up do not want to
be treated like babies because in essence, you are adults.
I feel the masculine spirit wants to be acknowledged at
powerful and with dignity. I feel if a woman is not
interested, she should say, "I'm very flattered, but
I'm not ready for any relationship at this time. I do
wish you the best because you deserve the best."
I always try to be kind because it takes courage
to approach anyone and bravery is bravery!

--Sabrina

[pyle]

Yeah, I have heard this before, it's kinda funny but I don't know how to take it

Ladybug~ You go, gal friend! Yes, yes.... younger men can be quite something in the bedroom....

but when first meeting a young man, its unlikey she is sizing you up for sex... I meet a young man and hes looking at his shoes, Im not really interested. I want him to be confident, not cocky.

Waiters. now there is an occupation that can teach a young man something. Waiters need to be paying attention, in control but not controlling, observing needs, smiling, well groomed, speak well.
We arent talking McDonald's of course. *smile*