Do Younger men only date older women if.....

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[zelbinian]

I don't necessarily equate looking younger with looking beautiful. There are plenty of 18 year olds who are not pleasant to look at. Then again, there are plenty of 40, 50, and even 60 year olds who have taken good care of themselves and are attractive.

As an example, at my work there's a woman who's in her 40's, and you can tell that she's probably in her 40's. She's still pretty effin' hot. lol

[backinblack4]

I don't focus on only the older women who could still pass for being in their 20's. If I wanted that, I'd date a woman in her 20's. Its not all about looks for me. And I definitely don't mind a woman who looks like her age. Its a part of life. I see no reason to hide it or be ashamed of it. I don't want to come off as shallow but if she's like 40 and hasn't taken care of her self and looks like she's 60, that would alarm me. But as long as she's taken reasonably good care of herself to where she doesn't look like she's 20 years older than she really is, and she is a clean person, I'm fine. I personally prefer the woman who most guys would consider just "average". I find them more beautiful than the stereotypical bombshell ones.

[shodunn88h]

I think it just matters if the guy finds the lady attractive. There are a lot of unattractive 25 year olds, so it's not really an age thing. Beauty is beauty, and age doesn't dictate it. Personality and energy go a long way. The reason why younger men like older women is because of the personality, and the conviction in which they carry themselves. That's why I dig them, personally.

[strings101]

A wise person once said: "as you GROW older, you can't help but get some wrinkles, but if you smile and laugh a lot, they'll be in all the right places"... yepper...

Bottom line: better to have great laugh lines, lively eyes, and an engaging personality, than a heavily-Botoxed "wax museum" plastic face! (OK, don't neglect the physical fitness for the bod.)

Really, the EXTREME levels of "work" being sported on the faces of some cougars here in So-Fla. is reaching the farther shores of ABSURD... not attractive at all... except from VERY FAR AWAY... lol.

[kmussekl]

Originally Posted by jk1982

I have to say, what's the point of dating a mature woman if you want her to look the same age as yourself? Surely the best thing for a guy to do in this situation is date someone his own age!
Personally, i love the way mature women look (carol vorderman... swooon...) whether they try to "keep up with trends" or have their own style.

Look is only one thing and not the most important, but a comment is required.

I am dating older women, and am just started a relationship to a woman of 66, also because I adore the maturity of a women's body. So no thanks, they should not look my age (26) with silicone breasts, fat extracted tummy etc.

A mature woman in balance takes care of her self and is not ashamed of her matured body. But again, there are more to it than just the body, although the sexuality is important for me (and for the three cougar's I have had a relationship so far)

[jenndc66]

Originally Posted by toriw

Just because a man is younger doesnt make him "all that" unless he too has taken care of himself, has a healthy mind and body. Healthy people seek healthy people.

This is so true. I really enjoy keeping in shape. Not -just- for the superficial, though that doesn't hurt. I just like knowing I'm doing something good for me and good for my body. It's an honest, clean "high".

And I'd wanna share myself with someone who's on the same page, basically.

[stargazer123]

i think age doesn't matter. love is everything, it depends both if willing to get married as long as the young man has the right age or above 18 year old.

[coug41]

I'm 41 years old, but generally only date men in their 20's because I look more like I'm in my mid 20's. On the odd occasion that I've dated someone my age, he looks more like my dad than my date. It's not ALL about what's on the outside, but there has to be an attraction to what's inside AND out.

That's my two cents...

[lioninthecity]

Originally Posted by coug41

I'm 41 years old, but generally only date men in their 20's because I look more like I'm in my mid 20's. On the odd occasion that I've dated someone my age, he looks more like my dad than my date. It's not ALL about what's on the outside, but there has to be an attraction to what's inside AND out.

So are you saying what is inside is equivalent to men in their 20s? For starters, they usually say there's much more upstairs with women in their 20s...