Inconsistency in what women say they want

I'm noticing the more I browse peoples' profiles (yes, I do read them), the more I crack up at what they want. This is a site for older women to meet younger men...so why is "maturity" the most sought after quality in a man? It's common knowledge that men mature more slowly than women, so how on earth can you find a "mature" 20-something guy?

Oh and don't even get me started on the "I don't want sex" or "I want more than sex" lines in the profiles. Look ladies, I don't know if you realize this or not, but 99% of the men who are here got turned onto the idea of an older woman thanks to porno.

edit: Sorry I don't mean to be rude, but the profiles I'm reading on these "mature" women are just as dumb as the personal ads I read for 18 and 20 year olds.

If you want a fling with someone out of your age range, that's one thing, but to actually believe a deep, true relationship can be built, well, sorry but you are kidding yourselves.

[deets007]

Well there may be inconsistency in the profiles you've read but unless you've chatted with the authors how do you know that? Is it just your preconceived notions? I think my desires and expectations are realistic and stated honestly in my profile. Which is more than I can say for yours....."I'll tell you laters". Wow, pretty jaded for a 30 yr old. You just shot yourself in the foot.

[jptg]

Because you believe that a deep and sincere relationship between an older woman and younger man is completely unrealistic, then would you admit to just being here for sex? If you admit to being here for sex, then you are in the wrong place and should probably open an account at AdultFriendFinder. If you deny that you are solely here for the sex then you begin to contradict your own beliefs, which destroys whatever credibility you actually have.

I sort-of understand what the point of this post was, but it was ignorant, poorly stated, and ill-supported. Why would you choose this as your first post? And more importantly, why are you here?

Thanks for the flames, I figured as much coming from this group.

1. Well there may be inconsistency in the profiles you've read but unless you've chatted with the authors how do you know that?

Sorry but profiles serve as an introduction, and if you need to 'chat' with the authors to understand a profile, then there is no point in a profile.

2. I have not alluded to my sexual tastes and expectations in any way. My foot feels quite fine, and sorry to burst your bubble houston, but my feelings are not exactly hurt from your refusal to date me. And I might add that your attitude can be seen as the downfall of the older female, shallow as hell. I suppose if this site doesn't work out for you, picking up guys from high school is your next step? How nice of you to judge me, see how I can do it right back.

3. jptg, if you think ANY man is here for anything other than sex, you are really fooling yourself. Older women have nothing to offer younger men except sex. Sorry, just the way it is. Once that younger man realizes how old you will be by the time he reaches your current age, and starts to want a family of his own, he will realize just how big a mistake he has made.

I chose this as my first post at the utter disgust of the attitudes of the people here. You are all fooling yourselves in your little fantasy land. I just want to say enjoy, but don't think you are participating in anything real or genuine for a second. Flame me all you want, but deep down you know what I say is true, and obviously I'm not the only one based on the private messages I received supporting my post.

I'm sure you all know this anyway, considering all the whining and complaining I have been reading about people leading you all on with no plans of meeting. Could it be age? Supercilious and shallow attitudes? Both? Or could it be younger men just don't want a 'real' relationship with an older women...at least, no younger man who is worth a damn. Maybe some creepy out Mamma's boy who wet the bed until age 17... Who knows, who cares. I'll stick with women 18 - 30.

[jptg]

You failed to answer the question.

Why are you here?

I didn't fail, I just refused to answer. I am here for good company and chat.

[deets007]

"Thanks for the flames, I figured as much coming from this group. "

You're welcome. It was obvious that you wrote this commentary for just that reason and we hate to disappoint.


"I didn't fail, I just refused to answer. I am here for good company and chat."

LMAO, good company and chat ... but you said all men are here for sex?

Too bad you feel that way Houston, I think we could have had a lot of fun together.

Pretty dense. Oh well. You are entitled to your prerogative, but at least I came at you being honest rather than just telling you what you want to hear like every other man does just to get into your panties (case in point, the responses to your blog.) The fact that you ladies actually buy that BS is baffling. I don't know if it's me being male, or the fact that you cant' **** a ****ter, but the mens responses are pretty transparent to your little question that you obviously didn't want answered honestly anyway. Gawk and disbelieve all you want, but keep this post in mind when you are at home wondering why the guy who you seemed to really click with the previous night won't call you back.

[alexbrown]

Originally Posted by jj2233

Thanks for the flames, I figured as much coming from this group.

1. Well there may be inconsistency in the profiles you've read but unless you've chatted with the authors how do you know that?

Sorry but profiles serve as an introduction, and if you need to 'chat' with the authors to understand a profile, then there is no point in a profile.

2. I have not alluded to my sexual tastes and expectations in any way. My foot feels quite fine, and sorry to burst your bubble houston, but my feelings are not exactly hurt from your refusal to date me. And I might add that your attitude can be seen as the downfall of the older female, shallow as hell. I suppose if this site doesn't work out for you, picking up guys from high school is your next step? How nice of you to judge me, see how I can do it right back.

3. jptg, if you think ANY man is here for anything other than sex, you are really fooling yourself. Older women have nothing to offer younger men except sex. Sorry, just the way it is. Once that younger man realizes how old you will be by the time he reaches your current age, and starts to want a family of his own, he will realize just how big a mistake he has made.

I chose this as my first post at the utter disgust of the attitudes of the people here. You are all fooling yourselves in your little fantasy land. I just want to say enjoy, but don't think you are participating in anything real or genuine for a second. Flame me all you want, but deep down you know what I say is true, and obviously I'm not the only one based on the private messages I received supporting my post.

I'm sure you all know this anyway, considering all the whining and complaining I have been reading about people leading you all on with no plans of meeting. Could it be age? Supercilious and shallow attitudes? Both? Or could it be younger men just don't want a 'real' relationship with an older women...at least, no younger man who is worth a damn. Maybe some creepy out Mamma's boy who wet the bed until age 17... Who knows, who cares. I'll stick with women 18 - 30.

The love of my life was a woman in her late 40s. I would've spent the rest of my life with her. No matter how wrinkly she got. My feelings where that strong.