Urgent! need advice on date with cougar

[bbstar]

i have a date tonight with this cougar (31 years old).

i met her at this super loud nightclub. i basically saw this cute girl so i let her know how i felt about her.
we basically vibed for 20 minutes. i made out with her and then i tried to pull her home but i did not have the
necessary logistics (her friends cockblocked) so i settled for her number and the date is tonight.


ok so now my question is how should i handle this girl. how are the dynamics with an older women. do i embrace
fun and unpredictability on our date. should i be direct and sexual? do i do boring comfort and rapport with this
girl. connect to her on an emotional level? should i be really physical with this girl at the bar?

man its so nerve racking to go out on a date with this girl. i hope it goes good

[lynda]

bbstar, first she is not a cougar at 31; cougars are 40+. I would treat her like any other date you have had. BE YOURSELF! Why do you think an older woman would be any different? Just because we are older does not mean desperate. Enjoy the date and get to know her so embrace the fun. I wish you much luck and please let us know how the date goes.

[houstoncougar]

ahh hah! I've discovered the secret of why men are concerned about how to act with older women lynda!!! It's because they are never "themselves" around women. They are always putting on some kind of show trying to figure out what it is that any woman of any age wants so that they can get into their panties the fastest route possible. How do I know this? The men have spoken so to speak and told me so... at least quite a few of them anyways and frankly it's gotten to the point where I'm pretty certain they may be telling it like it is.

[bayridgebabe]

Kind of hard to get into my panties as I don't wear them I go commando LOL j/k. Houston think you got that right & the guys telling you that kinds of makes it a moot point.

[bbstar]

**** now I'm worried about my date. She might not come tonight. I sent her a text. No reply. Damn should not have madeout and then fingered her in the club.

My backup plan might not work. Oh well I guess I have to rely on the club tonight to get laid

[phxgirl1]

Hilarious! Wow.

[bigglesworth]

Unbelievable, You did what? No wonder she stood you up. LOL

[bbstar]

Yeh I know I ****ed up. I should have banged her the same night. Anyways I'm off to the bar now. I doubt she will be there though

Man why do cougars flake!

[bayridgebabe]

BBstar if I say so myself you are a "PIG" too bad I can't say anymore than that on here as I'd be banned for using foul language. You are not a man but a "PIG" and all you deserve in my book is slop.

[bbstar]

ok it's official guys

this milf stood me up tonight. god damn it! it's the second time i've been stood up by a milf.

god damn my life. im a nice guy. i go out 7 night a week to bars and nightclub and just try to pickup girls. my game really sucks now! i've only closed one new girl this month. friggin hate this.

i was so excited to go on a date with this girl.

my self worth is based on girls validation. i suck!!

why am i so bad with girls?! can't even sleep with 10 new girls in a month unless my friend helps me like last month,