Am I a good cub?

[youngcub4you]

I am a 21 year old who wants to be with an older women very badly (I came so close only to be stopped - its a LONG story but anyway....). The reason for this is that I want to be controlled and trained. I see myself as a toy and play thing for an older women. My dream it to serve an older women and learn how to please a female from her.

So am I good cub?

[bayridgebabe]

IMHO. NO you are not a good cub. Most of us ladies are looking for a partner, not a slave or puppy. I train my dog, not a potential b/f, mate, partner,toy, play thing or what else you want to called. I don't want a submissive anything. You might be better off finding another site that will well suit your wants & needs, again IMHO, I don't think GC is for you. Then again this is MHO.

[lynda]

Welcome youngcub to the forum. We all have our preferences and perhaps there is someone on the GC side that is looking for the same as you. Take a look through the profiles. It is true that most of us do look for more than just a toy. Good luck in your search....

[youngcub4you]

Originally Posted by bayridgebabe

IMHO. NO you are not a good cub. Most of us ladies are looking for a partner, not a slave or puppy. I train my dog, not a potential b/f, mate, partner,toy, play thing or what else you want to called. I don't want a submissive anything. You might be better off finding another site that will well suit your wants & needs, again IMHO, I don't think GC is for you. Then again this is MHO.

I see. It seems it is going to be rather tough to find a women who would look for a guy like me. It seems like a cruel joke, I desire "lessions" but I can't find a teacher.

Originally Posted by lynda

Welcome youngcub to the forum. We all have our preferences and perhaps there is someone on the GC side that is looking for the same as you. Take a look through the profiles. It is true that most of us do look for more than just a toy. Good luck in your search....

No two snowflakes are alike. I am sure that most of you are looking for more than a toy. I am also willing to listen to her and get to know her go to dinner, movies and things like that.

[houstoncougar]

hmm well it's difficult to know if we're interested when we don't know what you look like or where you live...

[shortcake]

What is with the guys who want to be "told what to do or trained"?

[youngcub4you]

Originally Posted by shortcake

What is with the guys who want to be "told what to do or trained"?

Well I can speak for myself but not so much for others guys.

The reason I am looking to be "trained" is to kind of take a break from having to to be the "man" all the time. It allows me to explore a more submissive side to myself. It also appealing because we younger men have very strong sex drives they are wild and we can't really control them. So the thought of being tamed by a older women is something we look forward too.

[houstoncougar]

Did you even read my post up there? How do you expect to find a cougar if we don't even know where you reside?

[youngcub4you]

Originally Posted by houstoncougar

Did you even read my post up there? How do you expect to find a cougar if we don't even know where you reside?

I have picture of myself.

Sorry it took a while for me to upload a picture!

[joeski]

Originally Posted by shortcake

What is with the guys who want to be "told what to do or trained"?

Well as a guy you spend your entire life chasing women who you're interested in. Many women expect to be chased, even if they're the ones interested in YOU. The moment you show interest, they pull back as if they want to be pursued.

Well, this whole routine can become exhausting to the point where the thought of a woman taking you over sexually, as though the chase has been reversed, is not only very attractive but also quite relieving.

Think of it as growing up in a place so insufferably hot that you begin to daydream about shoveling snow - something that could only be thought of as a terrible hassle to someone who grew up in, oh say, Colorado.