Neighbors

[terrapin82]

So I spend a few hours in the afternoon every weekday over at my aunt's house helping out, watching my cousin and doing handywork around the house, as my aunt is a single mom. Often when I'm over there I end up talking to their neighbor who sometimes cleans their house, a woman whose family lives next door and has kids that play with my cousin. She's about forty, petite, and very cute. Every time she's around we talk almost non stop. I make her laugh, she rambles on about mundane things, I tease her and she playfully hits me or makes a smart comment and shoots me a smile.

I'm beginning to wonder if this is my imagination or if there might be something there, as she is married, but her husband is gone for prolonged periods of time staying at a "friend's house" as it is closer to his work (< an hour drive)

[bigglesworth]

Slow down the hormones, sweetie. Make sure of the whole situation before you leap in. She may just find you charming to talk to and having some fun. If she is thinking a liaison, remember there is still a husband involved.

[wetnwild]

So what exactly is your question? If you're asking if you should go for it, the answer is definitely no. She is married. You're only going to cause heart-ache for all of you if you get involved with a married woman.

[chilledice]

Hmm i can see a husband with a big bat coming after you bro! my advice is dont go there, she is married and even IF she is wanting something with you ya still need to think of the feelings of her husband and how much pain this would cause, good luck to you with whatever you decide

[dougie1142]

Think of her, her kids and the husband. How would you feel if you were him? You'd ruin their household if you did something! Just leave it out, theres plenty more birds in the sky.

[bluemerrage]

Originally Posted by chilledice

Hmm i can see a husband with a big bat coming after you bro! my advice is dont go there, she is married and even IF she is wanting something with you ya still need to think of the feelings of her husband and how much pain this would cause, good luck to you with whatever you decide

dont worry he know how to run

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