Any tips for messaging

[cazujay]

Hi, So Im new to the site, and i was wondering. what should you put in an initial message when you are trying to get a cougar to notice you, or at least reply so you can start chatting

[violet]

Hey cazujay. I like getting messages where it shows the person actually read my profile and is aware of what I'm looking for. If you see some common interest, you can make a comment about that. It doesn't have to be long...just a hello, a short comment and see what happens.

It also helps greatly if you have a picture on your profile, and enough information to give us an idea of what you're about. Good luck!

[lynda]

Violet has good points. The ladies most definitely want to see who we talk to and filling out your profile is a plus. Most of us have photos and a complete profile so it is only fair for the guys to do the same. Jay, look forward to seeing you post and hope you find lots of ladies to chat with.

[madameregi]

I totally agree with you Lynda. It's so annoying when guys are messaging us and know something about us from our pix and profiles just to find absolutely nothing on theirs, so you dont know how to respond or if you have any common interests with that person.

Regi

[cazujay]

thanks a lot for the advice.

What do you think of this as a profile picture?

[lunamor]

It's dim but we can get the idea

[bayridgebabe]

Originally Posted by cazujay

thanks a lot for the advice.

What do you think of this as a profile picture?

sorry cazujay, but it is way to DARK. Can't really see your face @ all. How about posting a brighter picture of yourself so all of us ladies can see what you really look like & not just imagine what you might look like

[sonia]

Well Cazujay - there's a great view out of the window behind you....

[sexy_pleasure]

Originally Posted by sonia

Well Cazujay - there's a great view out of the window behind you....

AAAHH!!!! That's funny!!!
Welcome Mr. Please change that picture.

[cazujay]

is this a better photo?
what makes a good photo?