advise on women

[fierogt]

..I recently had an epiphany,and join this site on a spur of the moment decision..I am not good with the women of today lost sort of.
I need realistic input,ofcourse put downs,slams & preaching come with the posting.
1 ..I have come to beleave most women are natural leaders because of the experience of child raising & imature men ,is this true
2 a woman does not become a ***** because she has dominant feelings..
assertive women have a steady strength & feminine courage of the Lioness.YES? NO?
3 If the woman is allowed the freedom to do as she pleases.with suport from her strong man,this bridges the gender gap for the BEST relationship.??
4..The bold lady can hold and capture the intelligent mans attention,respect & love in a way a man understands,?? I cannot express this properly
5. a lady must show drive & ambition ,a certain boldness to have the intelligent man rise to her expectations.
6 it is difficult for the man to want only one woman,,do you think the real man who worships his lady will be only for you ,or is the worship wrong??

I look forward to your answers
STAN

[charliex]

stan i cant answer your questions here, but i would recommend getting together with a couple guy friends, the better they are with the adies the better, then just study what they do, seriously! if you dont have any friends that fit the description then drive to the next town and sit in a bar or nightclub and just watch people interact, women are a strange breed and are immediate to judge you based on your appearance! so make sure to at least not look scary! if youre looking to find a woman who will be on your level then maybe a dating site like zoosk or matchdot com or something along those lines, itll give women a chance to get to know you without the akwardness and informalness of meeting someone in person! i would most likely avoid cougars unless you cant do without em! simply because most of he cougars ive met have a bitter hatred for men and tend to be over dominating and controlling! you have to be on your toes 24/7 and that can be a bit discouraging for a guy inyour shoes! good luck man!!!!!!!!!!

[rhonda2]

" We have a bitter hatred for men and tend to be over dominating (sic) and controlling"
So why in the hell are you on this site charliex? That kind of an attitude won't get you far with any of us.

[bigglesworth]

I'm not going to pounce on you Charlie, but just asking for your explanation of your statement of most cougars have a bitter hatred for men? Do you really think that is so?

[phil29uk]

Good luck Charlie!!

[arezzo_sole]

Answer to question #1.
Behind every great man is a strong woman.
(This statement is true only because society deemed women to be a sub-set of man)
Answer to question #2.
The Lioness was the hunter. look it up. The fat lazy male lion slept most of the day.
Answer to question #3.
Where I grew up the family was always managed by the Matriarch or "Head Mother".
The men ran the fields but the Matriarch ran the family unit.
Answer to question #4.
A strong woman will work with her man not compete against him.
I think a true man will look for his counterpart, as will a good woman.
Answer to question #5.
See answer to #1.
Answer to question #6.
A true man will respect his wife.
That is not to say that he will never sample another vine.
Men sometimes need to feel a little bit free, just never let them know who holds the leash.

[lunamor]

Originally Posted by rhonda2

" We have a bitter hatred for men and tend to be over dominating (sic) and controlling"
So why in the hell are you on this site charliex?

Maybe he reached this conclusion AFTER coming to the site?

He wouldn't be the first guy who's made this observation - although he's the first one I've heard say it in public. Very bold!

[bigglesworth]

I'm sure Charlie has an explanation and I do not think he is being mean, just a bit dazed.

[lunamor]

I don't think he's being mean either - I'm sure he's very sincere, which is what makes it so interesting!

[sonia]

Whenever the conclusion in question was reached there is an option to leave the site if the bitter etc women referred to are on here ( is 'met' used literally here?) and are so terrible....however there appears to be an irresistible compulsion to stay...can't be that bad then...or maybe there's nowhere else to go...