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billywilly · #1 (**permalink**) 10-23-2010, 12:01 PM

I want to wait until I'm in a serious relationship.
and yes I have had girl ask me but I said no

bigglesworth · #2 (**permalink**) 10-23-2010, 09:30 PM

I think I understand what you are asking for. You are 19 and you want an experienced older woman to deflower you. Do you think it would be better for you? Do you think we would be more gentle and kind? Or do you think that we would be able to show you the way a woman wants to be made love to? But to answer your question, it doesn't matter to me, in fact I find it a little titillating to be able to take someone virginity.

billywilly · #3 (**permalink**) 10-23-2010, 11:04 PM

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Originally Posted by bigglesworth

I think I understand what you are asking for. You are 19 and you want an experienced older woman to deflower you. Do you think it would be better for you? Do you think we would be more gentle and kind? Or do you think that we would be able to show you the way a woman wants to be made love to? But to answer your question, it doesn't matter to me, in fact I find it a little titillating to be able to take someone virginity.

Well I have date women that are 18/20 and can't stand them drama ,childish,and all the games I would like to lose it to someone who I care about and can talk to. maturity sexy
I would like her to show me the way a woman wants to be made love to.
thanks

sexy_pleasure · #4 (**permalink**) 10-24-2010, 12:03 AM

Personally,
I could never be sexually attracted to some one who has no experience what so ever. I may be physically attracted to them but not sexually attracted to them. As a matter of fact, I think it would be a big turn off for me.
I believe sexual maturity is something you achieve trough time and experience and not by someone trying to teach you. After all what does anyone knows about any others sexual needs pleasure and desires.
For me either extreme is a big turn of... Total inexperience, and waaay too much of it.
But then again that's just me.

i_sing_4u · #5 (**permalink**) 10-24-2010, 03:16 AM

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Originally Posted by billywilly

I want to wait until I'm in a serious relationship.
and yes I have had girl ask me but I said no

I don't know how to answer the question, because your statements do not compute. You say you want to wait until you're in a "serious relationship" prior to sex, but did you expect that kind of relationship with an older woman?

I guess I'm not clear on the type of relationship you want and how you would get your "education" without losing your virginity....the latter of which is just not the same as for a woman!

It is my medical AND personal understanding that when a woman loses her virginity, the hymen is broken. The only thing a male virgin hasn't done is ejaculate into a human aperture, but I may be wrong. (it's happened before! LOL)

So I would like a clarification of what you seek.

wetnwild · #6 (**permalink**) 10-24-2010, 04:10 AM

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Originally Posted by i_sing_4u

The only thing a male virgin hasn't done is ejaculate into a human aperture, but I may be wrong. (it's happened before! LOL)

Seriously? That's your definition of a male virgin? As if having sex is all about "ejaculating into a human aperture"?! Wow, that doesn't even come close to my definition of making love, which is what I really think this young man is looking for.

Oh and not all female virgins have hymens either. That is really an old wives tale. Many females have their hymens broken from tampon usage or from being very active in sports.

bayridgebabe · #7 (**permalink**) 10-24-2010, 04:14 AM

On the other hand WNW some virgins that have had SEX or MADE LOVE still have their hyman's intact. I know of a g/f of mine that had to have hers broken by a Doctor. For some odd reason it was to thick, weird but true.

madameregi · #8 (**permalink**) 10-24-2010, 04:30 AM

I find it charming that you want to wait for the right relationship and someone who can motivate your intellect as well as your loins.

I think the experience with someone you care about will be far more meaningful. Afterall, we never forget our first!

houstoncougar · #9 (**permalink**) 10-24-2010, 04:40 AM

I'm not convinced that the op is a real person or the person in the pic. It say's he is from NE yet his written expression of the English language is kind of sketchy and not in the text talking type of way. But, if he is for real I too think it's sort of sweet that he wants to wait for someone he cares about to make love with. Oh, and btw cute pic billy.