Do Cougar care if the cub is a virgin ?

[billywilly]

Well thank you ladies for answering my question..
Billy

[twigs1984]

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This thread

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[bigglesworth]

??????????????????????, that last comment was weird.

[bayridgebabe]

Biggles think it meant holding up your hand like you don' care IMHO that's what I thought.

[wetnwild]

It's the literal verbal definition of putting your face into the palm of your hand, like this:

YouTube - Facepalm

And that was hilarious twigs!!

[bigglesworth]

I must be out of the loop or just old, I prefer the first.

[bluemerrage]

is that a problem or a blessings???

is that a question or an offer?

[gopuma]

Originally Posted by bigglesworth

True, True, guys can go out an have sex for the sake of having sex, but when they make love there is much more to it for them. There is a sense of commitment and caring for their partner, on a deeper level.

That comment reminded me of this joke from Eddie Murphy's Raw (caution ladies, it's, well, RAW).

Despite the joke popping into my head, I do actually agree with what you said, and I think it's sad that a lot of the time women don't see that yes, men too can feel a difference between having sex and making love. Maybe it's society's programming that works against this view.

Anyway, to answer Billy's question, I wouldn't hold it against a man. In fact, I might even like it. An experience that I found very very fulfilling was the time when the student in the dormroom next to mine and I had a... fling I suppose you could call it, that lasted a semester. We were both the same age (25 at the time), but he was sexually less experienced than me - very much so. Naturally, as a grad student, "studying" was something the boy was good at. By the end of that semester.... Anyway, that was the sexual highlight of my 20s, I have to admit.

So yeah, this cougar wouldn't mind a sexually inexperienced guy, but there is more to the excitement than merely the act of teaching. He and I clicked as friends too. I believe if there is a genuine connection between two people, the level of experience of each become less of an issue, and that actually, if you're in a serious relationship with someone, you're going to learn about what they like and discover what the two of you like in the exchange with one another anyway, really.

[billywilly]

gopuma Thanks for answering!

[gopuma]

No prob Billy