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10-12-2010, 01:03 AM
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 Guy accross the street There is this young guy accross the street from me that I have been attracted to since I moved here and I think he might be attracted to me but I am kind of shy and he is very young. I don't want to gross out the whole neighborhood or have his mom wanting to kill me or anything (yeah he lives with his mom). OK, the reason I think he might be attracted to me is because I notice when I am sitting on my porch he looks at me and while he he outside. I have been making up scenarios in my head about how I could "accidently" run into him and "feel him out" so to speak.  I would like advice please.
__________________ I am of old and young, of foolish as much as the wise, Regardless of others, ever regardful of others, Maternal as well as paternal, a child as well as a [wo]man, stuffed with the stuff that is [common], and stuffed with the stuff that is fine...Walt Whitman/Song of Myself  |
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10-12-2010, 01:10 AM
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How young is this young guy, exactly? Do you have any ideas at all? Does he work or go to school? Do you know where he likes to spend his time? I'd suggest trying to build up some kind of rapport with him on a low level and then work it up. You say he looks at you when you're on your porch. What do you do when he looks at you? Try giving him a wave back with a smile, perhaps shout a 'Hello!' over to him at the same time. If you do this on a regular basis, it gives you more ground to engage conversation... or something else  |
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10-12-2010, 01:18 AM
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Well I think he is about 19. He doesn't go to work or school...not necessarily the type I want a relationship with. He spends a lot of time sitting outside on the porch smoking lol. It is too far away to say hi though. I kind of wish he was my next door neighbor but still, what about his mom. I imagine she might freak out if she thought I was trying to seduce her son. I thought about asking him how old he is and then saying, "oh I was just wondering if you were old enough for me to seduce." lol I think that might be too blunt though.
__________________ I am of old and young, of foolish as much as the wise, Regardless of others, ever regardful of others, Maternal as well as paternal, a child as well as a [wo]man, stuffed with the stuff that is [common], and stuffed with the stuff that is fine...Walt Whitman/Song of Myself |
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10-12-2010, 01:29 AM
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Do you smoke? Can you handle a smoke? You could walk past his place one day and ask if you could have one of his cigarettes and fire up a conversation from there. You could invite him over to help you move that heavy bookcase you wanted to relocate for such a long time. Your line is interesting and I'm sure most guys would lap it up in an instant, but given you don't really know this person you'll never know what the outcome might be. I'm sure his mom will never know if anything happened; It's not like male kids talk to their mothers about their sexual experiences! |
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10-12-2010, 01:48 AM
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No I don't smoke. I can't stand having smoke in my lungs but for some reason all the guys I am attracted to smoke... Good thing he probably wouldn't tell his mom because I don't want her to kill me. lol
__________________ I am of old and young, of foolish as much as the wise, Regardless of others, ever regardful of others, Maternal as well as paternal, a child as well as a [wo]man, stuffed with the stuff that is [common], and stuffed with the stuff that is fine...Walt Whitman/Song of Myself |
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10-12-2010, 11:02 AM
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I agree with Chesirecat and go for the odd jobs that need getting done. See if he is willing to help and then have the "Summer of 42" playing on the TV. The scene with the ladder... That way even if you fail getting to the next step with the young man at least you get some work done around the house.
__________________ Sam |
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10-13-2010, 04:37 PM
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11-17-2010, 03:08 AM
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I say go after him. Chores thing is a great idea. Wave from across the street every time you see him. Eventually one of you will say hi. Got anything semi heavy you can act like your trying to get in your car and "struggle" with it a bit, then look around and oh who do you see? Young muscles across the street... Bingo! Let us know how it turns out... |
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12-02-2010, 09:18 PM
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damnnn if only you were my neighbor
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02-20-2011, 01:50 AM
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not sure if you're still following this thread, but i would say definately go on and make the first step - he might be too shy to initiate things himself. maybe if you had any gardening jobs you could ask him if he could do the job for you? And then take it from there let us know how you got on! |
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