Hello, new to the site

[tony343]

Hello, I'm new here, and I joined the site for a couple of reasons.

But one of the main reason is a question I'd like answered. Are cougars/older women less into looks as their younger counter parts?

Like some guys don't have much luck attracting women around their own age because they are "average joes" physically, and I was wondering, as women get older, does this change?

Like, for instance, I think a 21 year old woman is more likely to be shallow than a 45 year old woman. Right?

Thanks

[taylor_michael85]

welcome to the site

looks are what draws you to a person..however they dont keep you interested

[tony343]

Originally Posted by taylor_michael85

welcome to the site

looks are what draws you to a person..however they dont keep you interested

True.

Also, I dont know if this is true or not, I hear alot of older women get irritated with younger men "hitting" on them because these older women think these younger men want this "Having sex with an older woman" experience....no strings attached kind of thing as well.

I once contacted an older woman online, and she just ASSUMED that I was looking for sex by the way she responded, and I had nothing in my email implicating as such.

She just assumed that a mid-30's guy contacting a late 40's woman was just wanting to "do her" , simply for the reason she's "older and more experienced" in the bedroom.

And some older women find this quite insulting.

Is this true?

[taylor_michael85]

well "hitting on" is another way of saying flirting...so iono why she would have had a problem with it..even if they are not interested in younger men they still are a bit flattered (SP) on the inside

[taylor_michael85]

well like the saying goes

everything in life thats worth having isnt easy

[tony343]

....some Cougars....don't be offended. lol.....but this is just a curiosity of mine's. That some younger have a tendency to pursue women....that are older....who have mostly aged well (by the grace of God) they have the...what I refer to as the "Dick Clark" gene, where they probably still kind of look younger for thier ages, perhaps maintained the same physique through good genetics.

Basically, if older women look just as good as their younger counter-parts, younger men will still be pursuing them?

[tony343]

Originally Posted by tarni

I had wondered about that too to some degree and that is why I posted a thread about the Physical Stuff when I first got here. http://www.gocougar.com/Forums/chit-...cal-stuff.html - it has some great replies and has actually helped me overcome a bit of that fear, that I phyically would not compare to a younger woman. I hope this helps and please add your comments to it. I would love to know what you think.

Yeah, there's this older female personal trainer at my Gym, probably early 40's she had 7 or 8 KIDS.....and a butt you could bounce a quarter off of. lol

She had her wrinkles of course, and a few stretch marks here and there. But she was smokin' hot.

Now, excuse me for posting a link to another site...I could not...for the life of me, believe this woman is 62

My eyes about fell out of my head lol

Originally Posted by tony343

Now, excuse me for posting a link to another site...I could not...for the life of me, believe this woman is 62.

My eyes about fell out of my head lol

I had about the same reaction :-p.

[tony343]

Originally Posted by pamn_it

I had about the same reaction :-p.

Yes.

Na na has great ta tas.

[jurupa]

Originally Posted by houstoncougar

guys are so shallow.

And females are not?