New to the game

[realhungry24]

Not working so far !

[violet]

He did actually post in the introductions thread already. Now he's asking for advice.
Realhungry, you can start by searching on the other side for women in your area. Then read their profiles. When you find one you like, you can try sending them a private message. Please take care to really pay attention to what they are looking for and what their interests are, and when you write to them, it would be a good idea to mention something that will appeal to them.

If you are talking about meeting a woman in real life...others have suggested places like book stores or grocery stores. You can make a comment on something they are looking at, or just smile and see if you get a response or if they smile back at you.

As far as what you can do...just be respectful. Good luck!

[shortcake]

Be confident but not arrogant. Be respectful, be yourself, and try (meaning put yourself out there). My opinion of course.

[wetnwild]

Realhungry, I think that a lot of young guys who have never dated an older woman worry about 'what to talk about". The best advice I can give you, seriously, is just don't worry about it. I met a young man (25) and yes, from this site about a year ago. He had the same concerns as you, what to talk about. Well we finally went out and believe me when I tell you, it was NEVER a problem for us. We dated on and off for almost a year. Most of us "cougars" are used to hanging out with the younger crowd so we know what to talk about and it really doesn't change. Almost all of my friends are much younger than me, so its just a natural flow of conversation. You will see, and good luck to you!

[tiffanyfontaine]

realhungry,

It's refreshing to see a post from a young man who is so well mannered and friendly. My best advice, since you asked, is try to remember that all
seasoned women (cougars) are different, so there's no one way to relate to all of us. But, some of the suggestions made by the forum ladies are very good. Be respectful and engaging. You could try complimenting a woman, too. Everyone loves to be flattered, right?

[realhungry24]

@ violet. Thank you for taking time out of your busy day to answer my question. I do appreciate that !!! Any way thank you for the advice too because I like doing the right things from the beginning so I guess I naturally consult the right people. I work at a coffee shop and I do have a lot of women that come in, but I think it is kinda weird do make conversaions at the work place ? Any way thanks for writing.

[realhungry24]

@ tiffany fontaine. Thank you for writing back. Yes I am friendly by nature and it's like part of my blood. Anyway don't all women like friendly and nice guys ? Hope to win someones heart over. But anyway thanks for all the advice !!!!

[bigdickdave]

Im a real nice guy looking to try some thing new how do i go about finding some one suitable

[bigdickdave]

Im a nice guy i look after my self how do i go about finding a couger suitable for me

[wetnwild]

BD, the ladies have already pointed out on another thread here that you need to start your own thread. It's not proper forum etiquette to jump into someone elses thread and start talking about something completely off topic.

Also, as has already been pointed out, if you want to meet someone nice and suitable, I would change your screen name. Just sayin.