A Month Break....curious....have You Done It And What Where The Results ?

[leonardoborgata]

I have been talking to a few people ( guys & girls ) about this subject i wanted to know what you all thought about it ? It seems many relationships come to a CROSSROADS and need some time to think early or later in it .....WHAT DO YOU ALL THINK ABOUT TAKING A MONTH BREAK OR A BREAK IN GENERAL ?

thanks for your responses in advance !!!

LEO-NYC

[leonardoborgata]

i agree.... with sex involved and thats it 2 or 3mos or LESS !! it was one girl in particular that mentioned her boyfriend wanted a break after a 6 month period and she did not want it because she cared about him possibly loved him.... but she said to him "do what you got to do " and thats how they left off NO REASON JUST THAT THEY NEED A BREAK !! WE WILL HAVE TO SEE......I TOLD HER LET HIM GO AND DO YOUR THANG AND IF HE COMES BACK HE COMES ,BUT DONT MAKE IT EASY FOR HIM !!

LEO-NYC

[whillow]

Sort of happened to me. Told a boyfriend 2 years ago that I needed to step back for a while. I could see that his depth of feeling was no where near mine. We kept in touch every so often. A year later when we tried to get back together, it just wasn't the same for me. We see each other occasionally. I still love him, I guess, but, I am no longer in love with him. For me, now, he is just a friend. Absence did NOT make the heart grow fonder.

[trophywife4fun]

Break = Breakup. Just get on with life.

I agree with trophywife. It might as well be a breakup. If your relationship is strong and really meant to be, I feel you should be able to resolve whatever issues you're facing without having to break it off for a month or two. Otherwise just move on and find someone else.