MILF & Cougar

[whynotbehappy]

I have to add a comment, just because I just saw this. I was not allowed to meet any of my son's fraternity members because he did NOT want to hear the term MILF and have to kick some ***. LOL At first it bothered me, then I realized he was just being a good son. Same son has no problem going out to bars with me, I'm to say I'm his sister not mom, how can you pick up girls if you are with your mom? LOL I'm NOT allowed to date his friends, which is totally understandable. I too do not like the term MILF or Cougar. We are all just WONDERFUL...I like that!!!

[drazic1986]

I find Milf offensive, due to the nature of the last letter, "f" is a poor descriptive, it's an animal act, making love serry, that's what it is...

SHOULD be MILM =o) Mature, (instead of mother) I'd like to make love to! On a more serious note, I also dislike the term cougar.

I agree with other posters when they state that it sounds desperate, in a sense.

Labels are labels, mature ladies, or older ladies would be the terms I'd use to describe my ideal type of lady to date! =o)

I feel as if I could contribute to this conversation haha

The way I feel about MILF/COUGAR is as follows:
I personally don't like being called a MILF when it is simply to label me. much like just being called a cougar. BUT, I do use those words to describe myself (ala my username here). Much like african americans and the N word. You can use that word in so many ways coming from so many different people that in some cases it's okay and others it's not. If you just go by the "meaning" of the word cougar/milf, then yes, that is what we are and those words excite a response in people (normally in a positive way) which is something I love. Personally, I'm the type to be in control and get things my way, so when I tell people I'm a cougar, they know exactly how I feel about relationships and the types of people I will flirt with. Normally I don't take those words as an attack or some kind of derogatory statement, but rather as a playful desire expressed in a simple word.

[lady_emerson]

Very nicly said MysteryMilf!
How a word is said and how we hear it can depend on the mood of a situation.
I had a friend who loved to call me Bit*h but in a friendly joking way.
I sometimes feel like a very agressive Cougar but I do not think MILF would ever fall into a comfort name for me.
Also Mystery, Very nice profile and pictures, I read your Blog, Good hunting!!!

Originally Posted by lady_emerson

Very nicly said MysteryMilf!
How a word is said and how we hear it can depend on the mood of a situation.
I had a friend who loved to call me Bit*h but in a friendly joking way.
I sometimes feel like a very agressive Cougar but I do not think MILF would ever fall into a comfort name for me.
Also Mystery, Very nice profile and pictures, I read your Blog, Good hunting!!!

thanks hunni

[bayridgebabe]

Again I will reiterate what I previously said I do not like the term MILF to me it is derogatory the "F" factor is what does it for me. Being called a cougar isn't all that bad but I am not a predator @ all. I just happen to be older woman who likes & is attracted to younger men.