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I would say no, not until the dust settles and the situation is handled. You may be stepping into something you don't want to be in. She may want to reconcile with her husband, etc. It is best to sit back and watch and wait.
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I don't think it's a good time, any time to step in. She's your mom's best friend. Not fair to be in the position to be privy to her private issues. If she met some young man on the outside/outta the blue he wouldn't have the advantage of her private things. I feel you would be taking advantage since you are privy. I think you should stay away from her and let her grieve. She doesn't need anymore complications in her life.
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okay picture this Your mom finding out about her kid sleeping with her best friend now come up with a plausible explanation for that situation on the spot and tell me if it sounded like it wouldn't totally just **** your mom off. |
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it will be a double black eye in your situation triadea. Imagine the damage will happen, you will ruin your relationship with your mom because she will felt you screwed her besfriend. Then freindship between your mom and her bestfriend, because she will felt that her bestfriend used her to screw her son which is you. And you wanted to add more fragments to her marriage. Real warrior know how, when and where to attack, and also who they will attack.
__________________ "Some days its sweet and dreamy.. Some days its dark and gloomy.. Mostly its fun and games.. No pointing fingers.. No naming names.. But through it all as life goes on.. We learn.. We live.. Learn that to love is simply only to give.." Last edited by bluemerrage; 11-01-2010 at 09:25 AM. |
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