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Old 09-03-2010, 05:27 PM
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Default my mom's best friend

my mom knows her since i was in junior high...she had this fantastic skin and a cute smile...a few months ago,her husband was caught in the act cheating with one of her friends...is it okay for me to approach her? how will i know it's a perfect time?
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I would say no, not until the dust settles and the situation is handled. You may be stepping into something you don't want to be in. She may want to reconcile with her husband, etc. It is best to sit back and watch and wait.
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Old 09-03-2010, 05:56 PM
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Well said biggles. If you do something to soon it could not only effect things with her but could stir up a lot in your own family. To all who wait good things come.
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Old 09-03-2010, 06:59 PM
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Wait, time is good thing.
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Old 09-05-2010, 05:27 AM
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I don't think it's a good time, any time to step in. She's your mom's best friend. Not fair to be in the position to be privy to her private issues. If she met some young man on the outside/outta the blue he wouldn't have the advantage of her private things. I feel you would be taking advantage since you are privy. I think you should stay away from her and let her grieve. She doesn't need anymore complications in her life.
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Old 10-26-2010, 03:03 PM
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okay picture this

Your mom finding out about her kid sleeping with her best friend

now come up with a plausible explanation for that situation on the spot and tell me if it sounded like it wouldn't totally just **** your mom off.
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Old 11-01-2010, 09:22 AM
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it will be a double black eye in your situation triadea.

Imagine the damage will happen, you will ruin your relationship with your mom because she will felt you screwed her besfriend. Then freindship between your mom and her bestfriend, because she will felt that her bestfriend used her to screw her son which is you.

And you wanted to add more fragments to her marriage.



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Old 11-17-2010, 04:03 AM
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Sounds like its better to keep that on in the fantasy bucket. Although it would have crossed my mind too
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Don't do it. You'd be setting yourself up for an uncomfortable situation, to say the least.
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