Just some advice

[stevex]

Hey there

New to the site so first of all hey guys.

Now i wanted to ask, What is the best way to talk to an older woman without them thinking your some immature child, and also meeting an older woman that is interested in the younger man. I asked this question on another website forum and was laughed and ridiculed off by older men (apparently they're more mature). So i'm hoping seen as this site has similar interests i can get proper and sincere answers.

Thanks X

[bayridgebabe]

Hi Steve & welcome to GC. FYI, there is actually a thread for New Members/Introductions. since you said hello here first I'm say hi right back @ you. Tell us a little about yourself, your age, where you live, what you like to do, etc., etc. . Thank you the picture, you are very good looking too. Talk to an older woman just like you would any one else. Be polite, a little flirtatious, smile, compliment her & be respectful. If you want or need any additional advice you can send me a private message on here, if you like. Good Luck, seriously I'd love to know where you live, sure hope it's close to New York

[houstoncougar]

Down CJ down! lol It says in the corner of his post that it was posted in Liverpool just like yours says Staten Island NY so I wonder if that is something new and I never noticed it before (senior moment) or if I'm just oblivious half the time. Oh and her advice was very good and yep you are a cutie!

[sexy_pleasure]

Originally Posted by bayridgebabe

Hi Steve & welcome to GC. FYI, there is actually a thread for New Members/Introductions. since you said hello here first I'm say hi right back @ you. Tell us a little about yourself, your age, where you live, what you like to do, etc., etc. . Thank you the picture, you are very good looking too. Talk to an older woman just like you would any one else. Be polite, a little flirtatious, smile, compliment her & be respectful. If you want or need any additional advice you can send me a private message on here, if you like. Good Luck, seriously I'd love to know where you live, sure hope it's close to New York

Hello Steve and welcome to the forum.
Do not worry; here you will not be ridiculed by any body at all, if anything you will be falling in love soon! LOL
This comment by "bayridgebabe" sums it all perfectly well .
And of course be prepared to explain, why you put your eyes and intrest on a older woman. This is something I always want to know.
Ah and brush your teeth! Just kidding… Wish you the best of luck!

[stevex]

Thank you for the advice and the compliments.
Baybridge, I'm 19 and from Liverpool, England, unfortunately. I'm just finishing off my training in musical theatre and hopefully trying to get a job or continuing my training when i finish this year. Other interests are like any other person i suppose, music, films, going the gym. How about yourself?

[bayridgebabe]

Again I wish you Good Luck Steve, wouldn't you know it, you live across the pond from me, as I'm in the USA & oh darn you are in the UK, Liverpool not fair I tell you). I'm sure some lucky lady will just grab you, just be prepared to be a gentleman & treat her like a lady & with respect

[vita]

Liverpool eh? Oh not far from me, sorry CJ .

Really good intro stevex

Musical theatre? Unusual. What got you into that? Good luck with finding work (presumably in musical threatre).

And, generally, yes I agree with the others, just treat us as you would anyone else and make us feel genuinely desirable (but without sounding cheesey or fake or like you're trying it on). Best way of doing that is by complimenting us about something you genuinely find awesome.

[shortcake]

Welcome Stevex, be yourself.

[stevex]

Thank you all for this it's nice to have a warm welcome, far from what i got on that other site.

Vita well i accidentally fell into musical theatre really, i trained to be a singer since i was small and then my teacher need a favour at the college I'm at now. The owner took a shine to me and next thing i know 3 years has gone by and I'm approaching my 4th and final year. It really has been a blast and i love what i do.

[wetnwild]

Welcome Steve, and I agree what a cutie you are!! I am guessing the other site you were on was not a cougar site. You are in the right place now hun, so stick around!! Both the ladies and the guys here will give you lots of great advice and no one will be laughing at you since we are all here for the same interests!!

Houston, as far as the "thing in the corner" where it shows where they're from, that is something a member can choose to add or not. Obviously Steve was bright enough to figure that out AND add his pic without any of us having to ask him too!!! Major brownie points there Steve!!!