Kissing in public???

[sexy_pleasure]

Got a question for all Cougars and Cubs,
Is it ok to kiss in public with a clearly difference of age?
Let's say Cub with 19 years of age and Cougar 37 or Cub 23 years old and Cougar 43.

I know there are different types of public places and different type of kissing; in this case I'm talking at the Mall, at the gym, at the restaurant or at the grocery store...
And no, I’m not talking about French deep tongue (go get a room) sexual kissing or a simple kiss on the chic, I’m talking about a regular love-lips-kissing.
Please give me your point of view .

[redfyre]

Ok? If someone is happy to sleep with me in private but scared or embarrassed to kiss me in public, then he's going to get tossed to the kerb quick-smart. It's all or nothing as far as I am concerned.

[cherryaa]

IMHO

The couple should be happy to do whatever in public the individuals would be happy to do in public with any other same age partner.

That may or may not include Public Displays of Affection according to the personalities of the individuals, but it should not be affected by the age of the participants.

[violet]

I'm generally not a fan of too much PDA, but a little bit is fine, and in that case I agree with Redfyre!

[vita]

Just my luck!

I've been a lesbian for much of my adult life where being affectionate in public is problematic and now I have further potential censorship from kissing a younger man!
How unfair is that! Hehe

Ha, I don't give a stuff. Being unable to kiss a woman because you fear you might get beaten up makes kissing a younger man in public pale into insignificance.


The issue here for me is how the man feels about public displays. It could be quite telling. Maybe. But, yes, if it was something I'd want to do at that moment in time, I'd do it.

[lunamor]

I'm not a big fan of PDA either but I'm with Redfyre, if the guy is embarrassed to kiss me in public because of our age differences, I really don't want to spend time with him in private either.

[bigglesworth]

I agree too much PDA bothers me, I want to say "Get a Room" but having been with a younger man and in public, we have had those types of moments when we kiss. Funny if anyone was around they look at us with distaste like why is that mother kissing her son like that. LOL

[houstoncougar]

I actually think holding hands is far more intimate does anyone else enjoy that and would you do that in public with someone of a oh lets say twenty year age difference?

[sexy_pleasure]

Originally Posted by bigglesworth

I agree too much PDA bothers me, I want to say "Get a Room" but having been with a younger man and in public, we have had those types of moments when we kiss. Funny if anyone was around they look at us with distaste like why is that mother kissing her son like that. LOL

That is funny !!!

Originally Posted by houstoncougar

I actually think holding hands is far more intimate does anyone else enjoy that and would you do that in public with someone of a oh lets say twenty year age difference?

I totally agree with you !

Ok here is the thing,

This is not about "us" not desiring to kiss each other in a public place.
This is about "us" not wanted to freak out anybody around us.

Should we care about what others may think?
Should we not pay any attention about how other people may react?

Thank you for your valuable pints of view.

[houstoncougar]

SS it should not matter what others think but realistically it does because you could get some wicked backlash from very small minded people. I would use caution in which situations the PDA takes place but, I wouldn't let it stop me.