help..

[daytoncougarbait]

I'm a cashier at a store.. there's a lady who has come in a few times, she smiles at me a lot and talks more than most. I doubt she's interested but there's always a chance. Anyways the problem is, I don't know if she's married or not, I don't know anything about her except that she's beautiful. So I was wondering if you had any advice for what I should do. Also I'm not sure if I'd be able to ask her to dinner or anything since I'm working and she's a customer. I'm thinking to maybe slip her a note next time with my phone number and to say on the note "I'd like to take you to dinner, if in the unlikely chance that you're interested, call me, and I apologize if you're married or unavailable".. something like that.

[daytoncougarbait]

Thanks, that's encouraging I'll certainly try it and let you know how it goes. Just a matter of when she'll be in next when I'm working again

If your are about to slip a note to this lady without her knowing, it sounds like a bad idea. There is to much that can go wrong. You do not want to catch her off gaurd. She may have kids, friends, of even a husband that may find the note before she does. Then she will have to explain something that she has not idea about.

But I would not give up. The next time she is there you might ask about her last purchase. If she is interested, she should appreciate the fact that you remembered. She will also give you some clues. But you will have to do most of the work.

[daytoncougarbait]

Oh.. I wasn't going to just slip it in the bag or something, I'd make sure she got it. But yes she knows that I remember her every time she comes in.

[daytoncougarbait]

Yeah that's why I was most worried about the note. It is an office supplies store not groceries and the manager is always near the register so I wouldn't be able to ask her, which was the reason for writing it instead. But walking her to her car is a good idea, if she gets something big enough, unfortunately usually she just gets paper or ink. Anyways I have a few different options depending on what she buys, etc. I'll let you know how it goes eventually

I'm definitely intrigued to see how this turned out

[daytoncougarbait]

haven't seen her since I last posted yet

[kimmyy]

Originally Posted by daytoncougarbait

haven't seen her since I last posted yet

I was smilling and talking to a very nice mature woman for some time ago, she vanished. Then I saw a very nice mature lady, went straight to her and asked if she wanted a drink. She looked offended but accepted - it was my first expierence with and older woman. Our relationship lasted 2 years and the age gap was 37 years - absolutely super.

So just be open and direct

Age gap of 37 years. That is encouraging. Here I was pondering a 23 year age gap. Im 50 and he is 27 and he thought I was 35! LOL *smile* or perhaps it was just his *charm*?

Another post was about older women wanting mature younger men. I know for me maturity is important. Older women enjoy younger men who are MATURE; its not all about the age, but the mentality.

Older women, or at least this one, do not "hunt" per se as many "cubs" think. Hunting is about sensing, knowing and haivng an intelligent conversation for starters.

(Working on finding a pic)