Guys I have a question 4 ya please be honest!!!!!!!!!!!?

What do guys like in a girl, I have never considered myself ugly, I am not repulsive or obese or anything like that, and I am really nice. I go to a good sized school, but nobody likes me. What am I doing wrong. Guys what do you like in a girl. Like blonde/brunette. Short/tall. Athletic, please be specific (i need help) What makes you want to date a girl!!!!!!

Height is generally not a factor for me, as long as your not like 4 feet tall or shorter. I don't mind any height up to 6' 5" really...
All hair types are great as long as they look natural (not a brunette with completely bleached hair that looks unnatural).
Athletic is a great plus! I know many guys want a woman more voluptuous but I much prefer someone in great athletic shape.
Personality is an extreme motivator for a guy who is looking for something real and deeper than a fling. Confidence, motivation, and a socialite nature (that isn't flirtatious to excess) are some of the best personality traits in a woman.
Intellect is also important, you have to at least be able to manage decent conversation.

There is a daring side of you that sometimes needs a little exercise at the expense of men...in all honesty. If you see something you like (perhaps while at a social gathering) then Go For It! That will prove your confidence and show that you know what you want and have the motivation to get it.

This is speaking all in terms of a more long-term natured relationship of course.
The fling is easy to get. Find a nice guy, flirt, drop a few maor hints without flatout saying whats on your mind, let your eyes do much of the talking with him and get very touchy. Simple enough? But if your looking for something more serious, then make sure you got what I wrote above.

Every man is different and some will agree or disagree with me, and some will be indifferent to some of the things mentioned. But in end, I think you'll find I am close to the mark.
Happy hunting!

[blrmkr]

The way you just described yourself makes you sound a little insecure, just gather up a small group of your friends, get all jazzed up and go out with the attitude that your the hottest thing in the bar. Self confidence is a huge turn on and its easier to loosen up around your friends, if your sitting alone at the bar your gonna look desperate, but if your talking and laughing, having a good time you'll turn a lot more heads.

[robben_salter]

Confidence is more attractive (in both sexes) than anything else.
Then humor and intelligence.

Then the 'wrapper' (your body)
different guys find different qualities attractive.

I find short girls, who a little meat on their bones to be cute.
I also find skinny tall girls to be cute.

Various different shades of skin tone are also attractive.

Work on the first two qualities, and do your best to dress nice.
and bam, you'll get noticed.

[taylor_michael85]

looks are the intial attraction..im not being shallow just the way it is for both of the sexes...however it not looks that keep them around ..for me..i would say height is important..not number one though..im am only 5'4 so i prefer the woman im with to not be too tall..it would just be weird to me..one of the most important thing is just someone you are not ashamed to be yourself around..casue sometimes you may be around people who you feel will not accept you if you were being yourself..second thing is someone who is non judgemental of other. specially people they dont know.. there are more qualities but i try not to limit myself too much based on a set list..casue if you do something that could be the best thing in your life will pass you by becasue you were busy being stuburn

Like everyone else has said, every single guy is going to have a different taste in women.

For instance, most people have said that height is a big factor. I'm 6'4", but I couldn't care one way or the other about the height of a girl. All hair colors, all walks of earth, it's all good.

And I can also echo all guys when they say that while looks may lead to the initial attraction, it's definitely personality that gets you to stay. I can't imagine being with someone that I couldn't have a decent conversation with.

[taylor_michael85]

you are correct. peoples goals and even who they are attracted to change over time..but for now i just cant see myself with a woman who is like 5'9 or taller

[whillow]

And I can also echo all guys when they say that while looks may lead to the initial attraction, it's definitely personality that gets you to stay. I can't imagine being with someone that I couldn't have a decent conversation with.

I couldn't agree with you more.

as for me,i like gals/women with big 'backs" i love big bodies.

[larrylove]

here's the deal. hardest thing you can do, heard it a million times...think about it though. BE YOURSELF. everyone knows whens someone's not acting like themselves. find out what you want, and go for it. i love when a girl knows what she wants. also - never spend too much ebergy on a guy, act like you dont need them at all. essentially play hard-to-get. **** is HOT.