Guys I have a question 4 ya please be honest!!!!!!!!!!!?

[raptor]

oh well its ok i think i can understand a little, after all im no diffrent from you, im not loved by anyone, all women seems to hate me .

[jptg]

If your claim that nobody likes you is true, then stop worrying about girls for the moment.

Heres a little checklist for you. Ask yourself if you do any of these things while interacting with another person at school:

Eye contact
Smile
Good posture
Speak slowly
Polite

If you do those 5 things the next time you are talking to a stranger, I can guarantee you that they will be nice to you. And if they're not nice to you, then it's because there is something wrong with them and not you. After all, who in there right mind could be mean to the person above?

Originally Posted by adam007

What do guys like in a girl, I have never considered myself ugly, I am not repulsive or obese or anything like that, and I am really nice. I go to a good sized school, but nobody likes me. What am I doing wrong. Guys what do you like in a girl. Like blonde/brunette. Short/tall. Athletic, please be specific (i need help) What makes you want to date a girl!!!!!!

Me personally, I like someone shorter than I am seeing as how I'm not that tall. Race, hair color, eye color, all of that really does not matter to me. If we can connect on a physical and mental level then that attracts me to you. It's not all physical for me.

On another note, you won't know if anyone likes you till you ask! And if you are just looking in school then you are limiting the chances of finding someone.

[whiteeyes]

In simple terms... women who own their own identity.

By that I mean, probably what women like in guys – someone who isn't stuck in some role they were raised in, but chose the parts they liked and discarded the parts they didn'tt – and actually are who they both privately and publicly want to be.

Unless we are talking about sex – then its pretty much as simple as “likes being in her body” and “knows what she wants sexually”

The rest is all pretty much details and shared interests.

[ramo13]

-I love girls with some color on their skin
-Hair cut that SUITS THEM.
-Body Body body! Guys are machines, you can have a hideous face an guys will still approach you because of your body. I would hit the gym and try and tone up if your lacking in the chest and behind departments.
-Wardrobe and hygiene. Look good. Feel good.
-I love down to earth, half worlkaholic half partier types

-If you have those qualities or a few of them I'd come running after you

[sbrdbnt]

Personality is an important factor.

Knowing what they want, and willing to take the initiative to try to get it. This relates to the confidence issue.

Physical characteristics can be important in the early stages, but become less important as time goes on.

[baron_de_egypte]

amongst women i knew through my experience i can say loudly that the best things i like with a woman are the following:

1- being number one for her: cuz she should care about me as i care about her. she should speak frankly with me and i do the same, in other terms we should mingle our souls before mingling our bodies cuz love is a mental and spiritual matter rather than being a physical matter.
2- respect: she should respect me specially in public. sometimes people get angry, but it doesn't give u the right to insult me at all. everything has limits including angry and disagreement.
3- intelligence and mind reading: she should be smart in order to know how to deal with difficult situations in our relationship and it is preferable if she can know in advance what i am going to do with her cuz it is a good sign of true love.
4- long term relationship ( marriage): i never look at a girl who is looking for one night stand or short term relationship, this is me. for me, what is the difference between a ***** and such a type of women????
5- educated: my partner should be educated and well cultured if available.
6- physical beauty: i can't belittle this aspect at all but it is considered last in my own list. for me, i don't have preference regarding the race cuz i like all ( blonde, black, arab, asian, indian,.......all). for me, her overall is nice looking and doesn't make me feel disgust, thats it. if a woman can have the previous 5 factors and misses the last one, i can sacrifice this one for the sake of other factors.