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couglovar · #1 (**permalink**) 08-15-2010, 06:40 AM

I'm from a small town in gerogia, and most people around here keep to themselves. So cougar/cub relations rarely happen. I'm a kinda shy person when comes to getting to know someone on that kinda level, so its difficult for me to approack an older woman. I'm 21, but I feel like since I'm younger, I'm looked down on by older women; in a relationship aspect. Just kinda want to get some of you ladys input on what I should do to help me break out, and what kind of woman should I approach? Thanks to all.

spirit_sh · #2 (**permalink**) 08-15-2010, 12:44 PM

I've seen, in my short career here in this forum hundreds on thread like this...and everytime the suggestions are pretty the same...
well couglovar...the only suggestion that i can give to you, is that the ladies, cougar, teenager or whatever, are woman, and as woman they like the man confident about himself, strong, that can give to her the protection and the attenction that she needs...romantic, but strong at the same time...there's no need olf some "magical advice" to let all the women fall to your feet, because women are different each other, so even the preferencies are different...you can be the most wonderful boy in the heart for a woman, and contemporary the ugliest monster for an other woman.
You have only to be yourself....and don't have fear of this wonderful human being that is the woman...they are fantastic, sweet and passional, strong and smart...they will not eat you, so there's no reason to be afraid of they! just be yourself, if you found a woman that you like, don't think, just go...tell her a joke, a smile...start talking and don't have fear...it's difficult at the beginning, but i tell you that the joy of knowing each other, to have a mutual feeling and to see a relationship building step by step is great!

wetnwild · #3 (**permalink**) 08-15-2010, 07:51 PM

Spirit, I just have to say, that even with your slightly less than perfect English (I do not mean that in a negative way whatsoever) that I LOVE your posts!! You are so right on and I hope couglovar heeds your advice. The only thing I can add is ....

Quote:

Originally Posted by spirit_sh

...they will not eat you, so there's no reason to be afraid of they!

Sometimes we do. But only when asked or when feeling VERY frisky, HAHA!!

spirit_sh · #4 (**permalink**) 08-15-2010, 09:35 PM

oooh sigh...i knew that someone one day had to tell me about my english...sigh...trying to do my best...and trying to improve it...sorry if my writings are not so much clear...i'll try to improve it..

of course any advice is accepted..so if you see that i'm writing in a wrong way, just don't hesitate to tell me, so i'll not repeat the error