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Old 08-14-2010, 03:39 AM
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yes ive gotten a few off this site. they'll give a nice chat and then ask for my email towards the end then few days pass i sign in to yahoo messenger and ive this girl trying to get me to sign up for web cam services.... umm sorry web cam don't interest me at all then they get all mad that im not joining up.... pathetic is how i see it but yes its happen to quite a few time from members on here
This happens with men too. I need a how to survive internet dating book! I'm too naive to be doing this.

I've had men open a chat with me only to immediately ask me if I have skype and a webcam or yahoo IM etc...

I just want to find a boyfriend! How do you weed out the creeps?!?!?

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Old 08-14-2010, 03:41 AM
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the filtering system is not very good... there are some profiles which are kept even though they obviously are scammers..
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Can you tell us what to look for?

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Old 08-14-2010, 03:43 AM
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Got another:

"Hi Handsome,
My name is Elaine ", i am 28yr and a nurse, Single and searching for real love, coolest man in the earth, brilliant, hard working, sexy, romantic and loving man with a beautiful heart. u can IM me on singtobird @yahoo. com so we can chat.."

check out the profile, it's standard drill:

goCougar - Member's profile - Where older women date younger men
I looked at the profile and it doesn't seem out of the ordinary. How can you tell? Does my profile look fake? Ack!
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Old 08-14-2010, 01:46 PM
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here's yet another standard form scammer - golflover111 (link below)

goCougar - Member's profile - Where older women date younger men
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Old 08-14-2010, 05:19 PM
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At least once you start reading these for a bit they all sound the same. Guys and women's pathetic really
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OMG, that girl is NOT 28! That is a teenager! I'm positive that the teen model is NOT the author of the profile. UGH....that's just creepy!
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I think the best thing of all is that out of all the sexually tempting names she could've come up with she went with golflover, must have been a really close tie with worldknittingchampion and chesslegend2010.
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here's yet another standard form scammer - golflover111 (link below)

goCougar - Member's profile - Where older women date younger men
so is it just that they sound all too perfect and are looking for all the right things? Or?
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Old 08-15-2010, 12:51 PM
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could we start a new thread... maybe "Am I being scammed?" an post profiles of those that have contacted us to see if we are being potentially scammed?
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Old 08-15-2010, 01:28 PM
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Hi,

I think there are just some simple rules you should stick to in the meantime

If something is too good to be true it probably is.
Always err on the side of caution.
If you think you are getting scammed you can block or report them.

The passage below is from the FAQ of forum usage.

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Can I block posts, emails and messages from specific users?

If there are particular members that bother you and you do not want to see their posts or receive Private Messages and Emails from them, then you can add these members to your 'Ignore List'. There are several ways to do this:

Through your User Control Panel: User CP, Settings & Options, Edit Ignore List. Then, type their name into the empty text box and click 'Okay'.

What if I see something offensive?

You will find 'Report' links in many places throughout the board. These links allow you to alert the board staff to anything which you find to be offensive, objectionable or illegal.
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