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Old 08-03-2010, 06:11 PM
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Hi everyone well i need some help, I've been talking to a cougar for about a week now. during our first conversation she did bring up the age in a message but i just ignored it and continued the conversation. Well yesterday she decided to give me her email and i gave her mine. Here where i need help, should i wait for her to email me or should i email her in a few days. Im sorry just really rusty on this, and dont want to mess things up between me and her. Ive been reading the Dont Do thread which has help a lil but still feel nervous. Any advise.
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Old 08-03-2010, 06:18 PM
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Hey Jimmy first of all welcome to the forums, now I would say if she has given you her email....send her an email!!! I wouldn't give it unless I wanted to hear from that person so SEND it.....and Good luck honey
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Old 08-03-2010, 06:46 PM
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I must agree with Laine, if she gave you her e-mail, then she definitely wants to hear from you...good luck.
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Old 08-03-2010, 08:52 PM
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I agree too...email her...
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Old 08-03-2010, 10:11 PM
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Hey Jimmy,

If it were me I would send an email, doesn't have to be anything heavy, just a "hey how ya doing" kind of thing.

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Old 08-03-2010, 11:29 PM
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Alright Thank you I will do that. ill keep u guys updated
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Old 08-04-2010, 04:19 AM
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ok im messaged her saying hope u having a good day. Her response was "thank u baby u 2"
so clearly she interested but i wasn't expecting this and out of words to respond.
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Old 08-04-2010, 07:22 AM
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Jimmy, just ask her normal questions like what does she enjoy doing for fun, does she have a family? Just be yourself. If you are really interested in this lady and want to get to know her do not start talking sex right away. I know that there are ladies and men on the site that is there only interest but there is also a lot that are actually looking for something with substance. I personally get turned off if a guy starts talking sex with me before we have time to say howdy do. If you enjoy each other's company it all will fall into place. I also want to say welcome to the forum and good luck.
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Old 08-07-2010, 10:56 PM
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Lil update well later that night she send me a email saying that she wishes me luck and that she wasn't ready to meet people. Well the next day i send her a message saying i hope we still could be friends. she responds "would you really want that, Why??" so i answered and now were chatting on the phone so everything is looking good

Thank everyone for the helping me

Well we went out today and we had a blast. She was nervous because it was the first time she going out with someone younger than her age
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Old 08-08-2010, 12:44 PM
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Well we went out today and we had a blast. She was nervous because it was the first time she going out with someone younger than her age
Glad to hear things are going well for you Jimmy, just take things slowly and keep up the good work
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