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08-08-2010, 05:11 PM
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08-11-2010, 06:37 AM
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I wanna say thank you so much for all the support and help everybody been giving. Now Im lost again I'm confused on were to go for our second date. I've tried the search engine but still confused Now let me ask all of you Ladies where would you like to go for a second date? maybe this might help me decide what to do for our second date. I'm in Los Angeles if it helps and willing to travel neighboring cities Another question, Should i be calling or texting her everyday or should i give her some space or should i wait for her to call me or text me. Since our date on Sat i texted her on Sunday 2 time once in the morning to say good morning and once in the evening to see how her day went. then i texted her Monday in the after noon to see how her day was going. I haven't texted her today because i feel like i might be invading her space. Would you want me to text you or no? or what would you suggest. She has a adult son and and a part time nurse she we both are looking for friendship first then friends with benefit then maybe a relationship. because of this friendship first i think i should give her space. |
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08-11-2010, 12:46 PM
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We're all different so it would be difficult to answer your questions. Personally, I'd like some space but I suspect some other women here would like to be in constant contact. I think the best thing you can do is take the lead from her (how quickly does she respond? How does she respond? Does she initiate texts? And so on) and, yes, if it's friendship I'd say cool it a little but often enough for her to know you're still interested |
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08-12-2010, 02:29 AM
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How about something fun like putt putt golf or maybe the amusement park rides at the beach? I'd like something like that and it would make me feel good that you were not embarrassed to be seen with me. If she texts you back right away then I would say a text a day is good but if she never initiates a text that is not what I would call a good sign. You could always just outright ask her. I have had a couple of potential relationships die a slow text death because the guys would not leave me alone. So yes Vita is right everyone is different!
__________________ It's woman's spirit and mood a man has to stimulate in order to make sex interesting. The real lover is the man who can thrill you by touching your head or smiling into your eyes or just staring into space. Marilyn Monroe Last edited by houstoncougar; 08-12-2010 at 11:51 PM. Reason: extra word lol |
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08-12-2010, 05:45 AM
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This is just so cute. And I seriously mean that in a good way Jimmy! I agree with the other ladies, we are all different so you need to take your queues from her. What you DON'T want to do is come across as too NEEDY. BIG NO NO. That turns most of us off really, really quickly!! I would lean toward less texting at this point if I were you. As for the date, you didn't say where you went on the first date (did you?). But I think you should ask her what she likes to do. I appreciate it when a guy asks me what I want to do because I know he is interested in me having a good time as well. Off the top of my head, bowling, skating (outdoors or in), going some place you can listen to music, a meal, drinks, a walk down the beach, a picnic...heck LA is ripe for all kinds of outdoor fun! Good luck and keep us posted! |
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08-30-2010, 07:10 AM
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I think its time for a update. Everything is working out well we enjoy each others companion, she was a lil embarrassed about the age difference in public at first but she over it now. ohh and the after 2nd day she text me so i responded and she began to think i was not interested anymore after explaining that i felt i was inviting her space she apologize and inform me not to feel that way. Again Thank You everyone for the advise and help |
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08-30-2010, 08:59 AM
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Glad it's working out for you Jimmy and thanks for updating us. Long may it last good luck honey 
__________________ Believe not in their clever words Because faith inact(ed) are the loudest heard All these things I say are true Understood sadly by a chosen few, you |
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08-31-2010, 05:32 AM
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Ditto. What Laine said |
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09-06-2010, 03:01 AM
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well i thought everything was going well on Friday something happen, and i don't think it will be the same if we keep seeing each other. I know she apologized but things have been so awkward lately and i thinks it time to for us to go our own ways.
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09-06-2010, 03:24 AM
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What happened Jimmy? with out telling or explaining it to us none of know why you said Friday something happen, and i don't think it will be the same if we keep seeing each other Care to elaborate on this statement?
__________________ CJ You should never make someone a Priority that only makes you an Option!!! Life's too Short To Worry About The Little Things - So Choose Your Battles Wisely |
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