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07-30-2010, 07:45 PM
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 What NOT to say to a Cougar  |
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07-30-2010, 07:52 PM
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Haha, I had one message that started, you look amazing for your age!
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07-30-2010, 07:56 PM
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Hey soccermom, haven't seen you around in a long time! Welcome back! I agree those messages are most definitely NOT flattering. I think the worst is when they call us "old women". Sorry, guys but that is NOT sexy at all, no one wants to be called "OLD"!!
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07-31-2010, 12:14 AM
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What all men need to get straight is that, there are women-years, and there are men-years. Women live longer than men, therefore (to use an arbitrary number) a man at 30 years of age is biologically older than a woman at thirty years of age. Then, let's factor in that in current modern society, there is a definite trend for women to take far better care of their health and fitness as they age, then men of the same age do. We will probably start seeing the statistical effects of this in the next couple of decades, and it will undoubtedly increase the current difference between men and women years (don't ask me to do the math - too early in the morning). Therefore, young men, while the chronological difference in age between you and an older woman may be, say 20-25 years, biologically, it is much less, just across the population, and depending on individual living and wellness habits, and environmental factors, the difference may be a lot less than that. So...beware of who you are calling "old".
__________________ “If I accept you as you are, I will make you worse; however if I treat you as though you are what you are capable of becoming, I help you become that” Johann Wolfgang von Goethe “Stereotypes are devices for saving a biased person the trouble of learning” Unknown |
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07-31-2010, 02:07 AM
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The whole fixation on chronological age (for women, for men) is absurd.
__________________ You can only be young once, but you can be immature forever! |
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07-31-2010, 08:35 PM
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thats soo funny and i have a hard time even just asking a woman her age, any advice for that one? and soccermom you are a cutie!
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07-31-2010, 09:47 PM
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If she wants to tell you she will but DON'T EVER ASK a WOMAN her AGE thats a NO NO NOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO 
__________________ CJ  You should never make someone a Priority that only makes you an Option!!! Life's too Short To Worry About The Little Things - So Choose Your Battles Wisely |
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07-31-2010, 10:30 PM
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alright ill just keep doing what im doing then, just thought there may have been a decent way of asking since it is a point of interest.
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08-01-2010, 01:32 AM
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One younger guy asked me, How young are you?  I thought that was cute enough, and I told him.
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08-01-2010, 01:37 AM
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Wheres ur Husband? also "dont u think ur too old for this type of thing?" they are probably best to avoid saying to a cougar. |
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