What NOT to say to a Cougar

[charliex]

ha i always found that one really cheesy and used to use it when i was still in high school and obviously too young to be legal and the ladies seemed to find it amusing just over half of the time although i never got any sour responses from it! but now i guess im just too timid to use that one i might just stick with cj on this one! being that theres other ways of sizing a woman up! try asking them if they remember the first concert they went to and how old they were, lol try not to sound like a reporter asking when and where but itll give you an idea if its a band that only toured for a few years. so i guess ladies careful with that trap!!!

[charliex]

well marty, i agree with the too old question, but im not sure about the hubby question, i always say something like a woman like you has to have a couple of guys chasing after her, then thatll open her up to tell me if shes available. ladies is that acceptable?

[romandog]

The one problem with ladies..... what one says, another disagrees with. They do agree on many things, but that Hubby questions is one of the ones that might be iffy.

[sonia]

Ha ha Marty - very true indeed! And Charlie - you are full of tricks aren't you? I personally don't care if someone asks me my age and am quite happy to tell them: if it is a deterrent then so be it. There are other ways to figure the age of someone out too: 'when were you at college?' 'how old are your kids?' ( if they have any and then a sneaky 'how old were you when you had your first child?') though I'm not suggesting you would want to interrogate someone quite so thoroughly when you first meet! The music/band/concert is a good one though - me I went to the Isle of Wight Festival in 1970 and saw Jimi Hendrix last performance before he died...very memorable

[lunamor]

Why is it so important to know anyone's age? Either you're interested in them or not.

[sonia]

Charlie - any woman should be honest and tell you if she is available from the word 'go'. Although your question would be a delight to hear as it is very flattering it might not reveal that there is a husband at home because in reality he isn't 'chasing after' her: well he might start if he found out she was dating another man! If a person wants to hide the fact they have a partner they will lie about it without doubt

[romandog]

I would hope that a female would want to be honest, because no matter if it is a traditional relationship or a one such as these, honesty and trust are always important.

[charliex]

well of course the liars will lie and that question is to be asked shortly after meeting and shortly before getting the number. now if she neglects the fact that she has a hubby after answering the chasing question with a no then proceeds to give up her number, then she falls into that liar category! cant do much about them except watch out!

[sonia]

Everyone is a potential porkpie teller,eh?

[charliex]

if a porkpie is a lie then big yes! just as much as everyone is a potential soul mate!