Guys advice for women

[charliex]

its sarcasm my dear, and everyone is disagreeing on how many dates or quality of dates it takes to know if you like someone exclusively. the point is from where i see it, if youve been dating someone for a month or two, telling eachother sweet nothings n such, then in the middle of a date the person pulls out her phone and says keep talking im listening im just texting another suiter. i would walk away right there, unless we talked before about you seeing other people, which if that were the case i would wouldnt be into it either way. if youre dating someone date that person period, if you decide you dont want to be with that person then move onto the next one but theres words for women who date more than one man at a time. this is the advice im giving if you come across a cub like me this is what he'll expect, and believe me its not asking much. just ask yourself how you would feel two months into a relationship watching your cub text or talk to another woman at your date? and again i use the term relationship loosely. i have a relationship with my chair, i sit in it and it holds me up, we have a very good relationship!

[lunamor]

WARNING! Past experience has demonstrated time and again that sarcasm and irony are NOT always understood on the Forums - many people are often absolutely LITERAL.
I would hate to see you lose your head for a joke!

[charliex]

Originally Posted by wetnwild

I do agree with you about the fishing for compliments thing. I think that stems from insecurity.

absolutely right about it stemming from insecurity! and ladies any reasonably intellegent cub will see this, now ask yourself if you really are insecure about a certain part of your body then why would you want a future lover to know about it! im not the arguing or fighting type, i walk away but a lot of peeps thrive on arguing! really want them to have that kind of ammo on you in that situation?

[lunamor]

Originally Posted by charliex

im not the arguing or fighting type, i walk away but a lot of peeps thrive on arguing! really want them to have that kind of ammo on you in that situation?

Oh, do you mean, Why let on that we're aware of *whatever personal physical imperfection* because some guy might throw it back at us later?

PFFFFFF!

charliex, some people fight dirty - for those intent on striking a hard blow, any blunt object will do!

[charliex]

lmao, lunamor i would watch my back around you! although i do find a woman who is willing to go to prison to win an argument intriguing!

[cherryaa]

Ha Ha
You will love me then

mwuahh
xx

More seriously, when do you decide to have that conversation about exclusivity, do you expect her to bring it up first?

[lunamor]

Oh charliex you think I'm a dirty fighter? Tsk - I'm too straightforward

Anyway, don't want to hijack this thread -- back to the men!

[violet]

Charlie...I agree it is rude to text on a date, unless it is something important like the babysitter is asking something about your kid or something in which case I think it's ok to excuse yourself and take the call/text.

About when to make the dating exclusive...I think if that's the way you would like it to go, you should just say so. Something like...hey, I'm really getting to like you, do you wanna make this exclusive? Back to the ole' communication thing.

[violet]

Originally Posted by charliex

theres words for women who date more than one man at a time.

Oh really? Are there also words for a man who dates more than one woman at a time?

[charliex]

yes of course im not implying thats theres a double standard.

the whole exclusivity thing came up from someones specific experience. sometimes i think people arent reading the entire post before posting up.which is why we end up stuck on topics like exclusivity. its like a never ending cycle! next topic please, not to be rude but we're not saying anything new! we have 4 pages of this stuff!