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08-03-2010, 07:37 AM
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__________________ You can only be young once, but you can be immature forever!  |
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08-03-2010, 09:45 AM
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Okay!!! here I am!!! Guys needed?? I Accept the call!!! first post in the forum, let's try this feature on GC that I've never yet tried (thanks lunamor for the advice <3 ) well well well..I read all the thread carefully...is absolutely a really complicated argument which discuss... I'll expose my personal point of view...it's quite simple but I think is smart enough(at least I hope  )Personally I don't like when I've to get a plan on how I have to look or I must say when I go on a date. this add a lot of stress because you've always to be careful of what you say or how do you act... resluting in not be spontaneous and be nervous. worst of all, I consider it like a sort of "lie" you're doing to the person you date beacuse you're trying to appear as you really are not...and if you're intencioned to create a REAL relastionship...well it's not the right way to start I think... Things changes drastically if you go on a date only to find someone with have a night of sex and nothing more...in that case you can easly lie and appear totally an other person in the short amunt of time in wich you stay with that man/woman and it's not important, because the day after you will not see he/she anymore.. Im my experience dating other girls I never triyed to do some plans on my behaviour during the date...I'm only myself..whit all my strenght and my weakness...if I'm fine with her and she's fine with me, it is a good point because I can be always myself with that person and there are strong roots for something important...but if things don't go well because there's something in me that she don't like(or viceversa), well is a sing that from the beginning there's not a mutual feelings and thing can go only bad... Learning form my past experience and what I understdood about relactionship, the only suggestion that I can give to you women for your fisrt date, is simply one..JUST BE YOURSELF!!!! there is nothing more cute and sexy than a person relaxed, enjoyed and confident about herself..having not bad thinking or stress derived form acting in a controlled way is the best way to enjoy a date..you will be much more relaxed, will enjoy your date a lot more and you will result in a person much more interesting.. ad if things don't go right..well probably you and your date mate will not go too much far in the future... obviously this are only my 2 cents  I'm not a date guru, there are only my free thinking about this argument  hope will help!!! Andrea |
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08-03-2010, 10:16 AM
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Hey Andrea I'm glad you made the jump, welcome !
__________________ You can only be young once, but you can be immature forever! |
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08-03-2010, 10:37 AM
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Hey Andrea nice to see you posting and I agree If you bring yourself to the table then that is what you offer to that person, better to be honest and who you are, acting as someone you're not is exhausting and you have to have a pretty good memory!!
__________________ Believe not in their clever words Because faith inact(ed) are the loudest heard All these things I say are true Understood sadly by a chosen few, you |
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08-03-2010, 03:25 PM
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laine, with wiki and youtube I never have problems pulling off the original moon landing, I just research before hand and hope for the best, never underestimate the power of the false identity To be fair you can't really hold up a second life for long, if you fudge your looks then you are going to get caught out sooner or later and like you said already, you would slip up eventually and waste everyone's time in the process. |
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08-03-2010, 03:29 PM
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Hahaha I take your point Al3x but seriously....far too much work!!! I'd rather just be me
__________________ Believe not in their clever words Because faith inact(ed) are the loudest heard All these things I say are true Understood sadly by a chosen few, you |
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08-03-2010, 03:35 PM
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But... but... that header in the Champions League Final... It was m....
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08-03-2010, 11:59 PM
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wow I go away for a few days and this blows up into a huge forum which I thought originally was going to peter out! coolness!
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08-04-2010, 01:22 AM
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sealion!!! (((hug))) am I glad to see you hahaha
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08-04-2010, 02:05 AM
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well I just reviewed some of the comments haven't been away. It seemed like there were two types of arguing going on... M vs. F F vs. F (in regards to how M is being treated. Since I am the OP this is more of a "guys this is your turn to voice opinions, gals: listen or ask for clarification" guys shouldn't have to defend...this isn't about changing people's opinions we can have another chat forum for discussion like that but my hope was this forum to be easy to navigate in terms of those seeking some of the guys opinions (rather than a point getting lost in huge back and forth salvos reminiscent of the Battle of Jutland). Thus yes this does have a slightly more guy opinion friendly aspect to this discussion as many others have a more women opinion friendly aspect. but this makes sense if this is about what the guys feels (whether right or wrong) |
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