Is this stunning 50yr old wanting some fun with me? PLEASE HELP.

[youngmale18]

Hello and I hope some of you lovely people out there could help me out and read my situation thank you.

Here it goes... I moved to my new area about 1 1/2 years ago and have 2 dogs and have been going to this park regular now for about 1 year anyhow there is this woman who also has 2 dogs and walks them in the park I only see her 2-3 times a week roughly and every time we see eachother we always walk around the park together (this is how we first met).

Now my situation is - the other day she was telling me her friend who she used to go for meals with she has had an arguement with and now she needs a bit of romance in her life and I said 'are you single' and she replied 'yes' now she was wearing a top I could clearly see a good part of her boobs and all her cleverage and she knew this for example when time to put the dogs leads on she did it right infront of me I could see a whole down view of them.

She only lives around the corner to me and is unemployed at the moment so I know she is home alone alot of the time and prefers nights in she has told me so.

She always tells me how lovely I am and has asked about my ex's and if I'm in a relationship now - is this just being friendly or is it showing interest?

She is one absolute stunning 50 year old who I would love to be a friend with benefits but I am rather shy young lad and dunno whether she is being just friendly talking in the park or would like to have some fun.

Also when she was speaking to me she had her hands in her mouth biting her nails - does this mean anything?

What should I do next? I would love to regularly ride her...

Please tell me your thoughts and what I should do next.

[vita]

It's really hard to say. It's possible she could be interested, there are potential signs there.

It's really good that you're friends because that makes it easier to approach the subject in many ways...could you ask her if she's ever seen, or ever would see, a younger guy? That might help get some clarity.

Good to hear you think of a 50 year old as "stunning" - I'll be 50 in a few months - there's hope for me yet :P

The other thing is..even if she *is* interested, she may be looking for something different than "friends with benefits" so you'd have to get that cleared up too - but that's true for any relationship.

I know that I have trouble believing that younger men in real life are *really* interested in me so it's probably true for many other women of my age.

Hope that helps a bit - I know all about that agonizing "Does s/he, doesn't s/he?" dilemma. It's a killer.

Good luck! Let us know how you get on.

[bigglesworth]

I agree with Vita

You need to clear some issue up first , to make sure she wants to have just a NSA relationship with you.

If that is the case, and that is what you both want then I say good luck to you both.

Vita 50 is not fatal, you are stunning and you have an amazing amount of compassion.

[youngmale18]

I've asked her if she has ever dated younger guys and her exact response was

''yes lots of times age is just a number to me''.

I've never asked about relationship because I don't want one just a friend with benefits.

[bigglesworth]

The I woud say that would be your next question to her, would she enjoy a FWB

relationship, if the answer is yes......then my dear you are off to the races as they say

[youngmale18]

I can't just say to her do you fancy being fwb it will be to akward so how can I go about this? I can't just suddenly say it...

[lynda]

The ladies have given some good advise. Instead of asking FWB just go with the flow and ask if she would like to have something to drink sometimes like coffee or a cooler beverage. This way you are in a relaxed setting and can have a visit. I am sure in the conversation you can ask if she would have a problem seeing someone your age and you maybe surprised. On the flip side, if you did start seeing her and things really got heated up and you start liking her bunches what if she and her friend get back together? Just something to ponder. Good luck...

[bigglesworth]

Lynda has a very good suggestion, being in a conversation in a relaxed atmosphere, would probably lead in the direction you want to go. Don't be scared, all she can say is no.

[susanlb50]

My feeling is you're 18 and she is 50, I doubt that she would be looking for a relationship with you, if she is physically attracted to you then she might want the fwb, but like Lynda said, I was asked her first if she would like to get coffee and see how she reacts to that first..

[wetnwild]

Originally Posted by youngmale18

I've asked her if she has ever dated younger guys and her exact response was

''yes lots of times age is just a number to me''.

She is DEFINITELY interested.

Originally Posted by susanlb50

My feeling is you're 18 and she is 50, I doubt that she would be looking for a relationship with you,

I COMPLETELY disagree with this statement (sorry Susan). But that is about my age and I ONLY prefer to date guys in their early to mid 20's (and hey you are close to that). And *I* am looking for a relationship with a young guy. So I don't think you can assume anything about if she wants a relationship or just fun. The best way to find out, like the ladies said, just start spending time with her doing other things and see what naturally happens. I wouldn't put any limitations on it right now if I were you.

Good luck! And keep us posted!