Is this stunning 50yr old wanting some fun with me? PLEASE HELP.

[youngmale18]

Thank you been lovely waking up and seeing responses.

This ''friend'' was just someone who she spent time with, went shopping with, company for meal in pubs, etc. She even told me there NEVER once had sex and now she wants a bit of romance in her life but she really wonders if shes left it to late my response was no you look lovely.

See - When I asked have you ever dated a younger guy do you not think she just thought I was being friendly?

Next time I see her in the park what should I say to her? I'm not really one for drinking coffees in a cafe tbh lol.

I'm such a shy guy and don't really wanna break our friendship up

I also don't want a ''relationship'' would just be fwb because of my age and I don't personally have time for a relationship what should I say to her?

She literally is so nice and petite for 50yrs old I think about riding her alot.

[youngmale18]

Originally Posted by wetnwild

She is DEFINITELY interested.



I COMPLETELY disagree with this statement (sorry Susan). But that is about my age and I ONLY prefer to date guys in their early to mid 20's (and hey you are close to that). And *I* am looking for a relationship with a young guy. So I don't think you can assume anything about if she wants a relationship or just fun. The best way to find out, like the ladies said, just start spending time with her doing other things and see what naturally happens. I wouldn't put any limitations on it right now if I were you.

Good luck! And keep us posted!

How can you say she is interested definitely I really don't wanna be reading ''signals'' wrong if you know what I mean

Thanks my friends I really dunno where I would have went to ask about this !

[violet]

I think she sounds interested too. Maybe not definite, but at least go with it for now. And if a young man asked me if I have ever dated a young guy, I would take it that he was flirting with me.

About when the discussion of fwb should come up...you don't have to rush it. If it looks like it is going to become sexual, then you might bring it up. This could actually be a whole new thread, as I have wondered about this before. I once had a short relationship (or a fling) and I was hoping it would turn into something more - I was under the impression that it *was* something more. But in a way, I feel like I have myself to blame for not expressing this *before* we had sex. If we aren't clear about what we want, we can't expect the other to be under any obligations and we might get hurt or hurt someone.

[jk1982]

It's impossible to give you any kind of certainty, but according to what you have said to us, she does appear very interested. Women are the masters (or should that be mistresses?) of over / understatement. Assuming she isn't blind, she certainly knows that YOU are interested. If she wasn't interested then it's fairly certain that she'd have given you buffering signals (no I don't mean the noise your modem makes) at some point or plain chosen another park to walk her dogs in.
At the end of the day you can ask the advice of every person on this forum and still be left no definitive answer to your question. The only person who knows the answer is the woman you're interested in!
If you are nervous then I would second the advice of others who suggested moving things forward from meeting with your pets to an actual proper meeting whether at a neutral place or one of your places. One thing I can pretty much guarantee though, if you smile and ask her if she'd like to go for a cuppa sometime and she says yes, she isn't doing it because she's looking forward to a nice hot cup of earl grey... more likely she wants to get to know you better (whatever that entails).

Carpe diem good luck!

[youngmale18]

I'm quite shy tbh I won't deny that... so what should I really do then?

When she comes close touch her breasts or something?

I just wanna so damn feel them lol or does that risk bad?

[susanlb50]

WnW what I meant was that at 18 he obviously isn't looking for a relationship with a 50 year old women, even if she is, could anything serious come from dating a 18 year old..he made it clear to us that he only wants a fwb which is fine, but if this women is interested in him, which he needs to find out first,he does need to tell her what he is looking for...oh and young, please don't touch her breast..lol...

[dandino85]

Originally Posted by youngmale18

I'm quite shy tbh I won't deny that... so what should I really do then?

When she comes close touch her breasts or something?

I just wanna so damn feel them lol or does that risk bad?

This is definitely not a good idea. You should watch less porn, because in reality nothing good would come out of that action.

[bigglesworth]

There you have it. I say just stand up be bold and do it (as the Nike commercials say) I feel she is interested too, so the only thing you have to fear is fear itself. Good luck and keep us all posted.

[wetnwild]

Originally Posted by youngmale18

I'm quite shy tbh I won't deny that... so what should I really do then?

When she comes close touch her breasts or something?

I just wanna so damn feel them lol or does that risk bad?

Yeah that's only a good idea if you want to get slapped. And risk never seeing her again.

I agree with biggles, in fact I just finished posting on another thread - FEEL THE FEAR AND DO IT ANYWAY (moving forward that is, not touching her breasts, haha!)

[valerie]

Originally Posted by youngmale18

I'm quite shy tbh I won't deny that... so what should I really do then?

When she comes close touch her breasts or something?

I just wanna so damn feel them lol or does that risk bad?

Dude, just ask her out for a cup o' JOE...NOT a feel for her D Cup!!! Are you out of your raging teen hormonal mind??? You really need to relax or you are never gonna get a feel of anything aside from her hand across your face as she slaps you silly! LOL