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lycanmaster · #1 (**permalink**) 07-10-2010, 01:20 AM

Okay a few of you ladies know me, well today at work July 9, 2010. i asked one of my managers a month ago if we were able to date co-workers she said yes and didnt care as long as nothing bad goes around the work. Well she didnt understand my full question, theres this cute 30ish women a sever that works with me, she what 5 foot shes single brown hair and slender body and nice ass (Had to say). But i asked another manager and she caught it and asked who i liked i told her and she was woundering if im going to ask her out. Now heres my help... im to scared to, i dont know what to say or do, but i talk to her all the time at work but nothing outside and i want to take her out to dinner but want to find more information on her.

lynda · #2 (**permalink**) 07-10-2010, 02:32 AM

Why do you need to find out more information on her? Perhaps start out with coffee or a drink instead of a night out like dinner and see how it goes. You will have to work up the courage to ask. Just find a good time and walk up to her and ask if she would like to go out for coffee. Good luck...

lycanmaster · #3 (**permalink**) 07-10-2010, 02:50 AM

i saw that coming... um okay ... (sigh) im going to try to get my car on the road so i can take her out so ill beable to gain the courage and talk to her more

lycanmaster · #4 (**permalink**) 07-10-2010, 02:55 AM

o well i know a place its a cafe' nice little place downtown

lynda · #5 (**permalink**) 07-10-2010, 03:13 AM

well you do have to ask before you can even get to the place downtown. you will do fine...

lycanmaster · #6 (**permalink**) 07-10-2010, 03:16 AM

i know i will i think the only thing im scared of is being rejected and something bad happening at work i mean all i know is that we might not talk for like a day or not even that ... but the first part i have to ask to get to the place? you mean ask her to go be...o wait you mean okay sorry im going to meet her there right not pick her up not a date its a get-to-gether, i forgot sorry scared i have this weekend to build courage grrrr

lynda · #7 (**permalink**) 07-10-2010, 03:27 AM

We all have had rejection but look on the bright side she will say yes. If you feel it will effect work then do not do it your decision. Build that courage!!!!

lycanmaster · #8 (**permalink**) 07-10-2010, 03:32 AM

i dont think it will hurt anything at work its not school lol way diff, but yea ill talk to my manager and she wil help me she thought it was "Cute" that i liked Tera. Wow did i feel like a kid...