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lycanmaster · #11 (**permalink**) 07-10-2010, 05:12 AM

okay problems

1. all my friends are younger then 18 and all they do is drink (I dont)
2. Cant drive getting my car fixed
3. I dont want to pick her up more of meeting some place..

but yes i like the idea of trying to make something happen anything else i mean my best mate has a gf and we could all hang out i just dont know how she would feel due to shes kinda county and we are (rejected) emos you could say

valerie · #12 (**permalink**) 07-10-2010, 08:01 AM

In the work environment, it's always best to start out with LUNCH. We all have to take lunch and if we like someone's convo, it SO makes our day! Since you work in a really intimate environment, you'll need to go slow...like pursue the friendship angle. Sorry if you said you HAVE, but I'm very tired and just about to retire to the bath. I'm kinda silly like that.

lycanmaster · #13 (**permalink**) 07-10-2010, 03:51 PM

yea i want to go tro the friend angle and see what happens... But what the end Sorry if you said you HAVE.... what i didnt understand that well you go to the bath im going to work out and train and wrestle today to get into shape

rembrandtx · #14 (**permalink**) 07-10-2010, 05:05 PM

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Originally Posted by lycanmaster

yea i want to go tro the friend angle and see what happens... But what the end Sorry if you said you HAVE.... what i didnt understand that well you go to the bath im going to work out and train and wrestle today to get into shape

I'd say don't bother and for one reason, because in my opinion mixing work and pleasure is the biggest mistake many people make (this is only my opinion, I'm sure many will disagree).

When I think about my career and how fast I am advancing up the ladder, I can't help but think if I had of got mixed up with work colleagues it would have only hindered me. In fact, everyone I know that has ever got mixed up with a colleague it has ended only badly.

I just think it's a bad idea from a work point of view, she may jump at the chance, she may not, but I'm just stuck on the belief that work is work.

lycanmaster · #15 (**permalink**) 07-14-2010, 02:17 AM

yes i can understand the mix emotions and work yes i understand but what with the Intimate work place im confused ... But i talked to more people and eveyone REALLY wants me to ask he out, im just tooo freaken shy.