Strange? I'm more the type of girl who can take weeks before judging whether or not I will venture with a guy, as I prefer quality over quantity, but I've never been told that I'm lousy in the bedroom. Quite often, I had requests for a second helping, and never heard a complaint in that department, whether directly or indirectly! I must be a strange WA then? IMHO I find that people do differ, and people do VARY! I can be more responsive to a man's attention on one day, and be completely taken with emergencies the next, and will not give any attention to anybody but focus on the problems at hand. I've seen men waiting to see me in a relaxed mood, and making a move, when they know they've got a good chance, and never regretted it afterwards. And I got the opportunity to get to know someone interesting in a relaxed atmosphere. People do vary, and moods and tiredness does come into play. Try to pick up a woman when she's got something major and important, and see what happens! Did you know what the lady went through the previous 24 hours before trying to get to know her? I've sometimes cheered up depressed men, just by giving them a kind word of comfort, as I could see that the guy went through some trauma on that day, and it often resulted in true friendships, and sometimes even more! But the guy was a mess on that day! And my primary intention was certainly not to get to know him, but simply cheer him up, to keep on living! |