Best place to meet cougars?

[taylor_calder]

I'm not 21 yet, so I can't go to bars but I was wondering what a good place to meet older women would be? I live in conservative Idaho but I'm sure there are some older women looking for younger men around.

[bayridgebabe]

hm good question Taylor, try the grocery store, the library, I'm sure there are other places too. We are all over the place, we are your next door neighbor, your friends moms (ulgh), the cashier @ the grocery store the cashier anywhere, we are all over the place. Hope this helps you out hun.

[taylor_calder]

Thanks. Whats a good sign to know someone is interested? Should I start casually, or give some signals to know I'm interested?

[lynda]

Taylor! Texas has a few hahahaha
CJ has named a bunch of places but you will find that not all ladies are cougars. You can start casual and do a little flirtin and see how the lady reacts. A good sign that she is interested she will flirt right back or that what I would do. A nice smile to a lady and eye contact is good. If you do find yourself in a conversation with a lady ask her if she would mind if you gave her your phone number that you have enjoyed her company and would like to talk more. Go for it Taylor!!!

[wetnwild]

tantric, that was a good post with some great info. Your ideas about good places to meet women were really good. But I have to disagree with your 2 places that you feel are WRONG places to meet women >>>>

- Restaurants: Women do not typically like to be approached at restaurants. They are there for a reason and it doesn't include pickup attempts by men.

Who says we don't like to be approached at a restaurant? Personally, I would LOVE it if a hot young guy approached me at a restaurant! I would probably invite him to sit down and join us!!

Gym: When females are at the gym, they are feeling sweaty and smelly and do not want guys to see them in that condition. Also, with a room full of men the come-on's are constant and so is her wall.

This wouldn't bother me either. If a guy approached me while I am sweaty and smelly and still wants to talk to me, I would be thinking, wow, if he is interested now wait until he sees me all showered and dressed!! And I don't think the come-ons are constant at a gym. Most guys are there to work out, not to pick up on women. Just MHO of course.

[susanlb50]

I agree with WnW...I've been approached twice in a restaurant and I found it very flattering...but I think tantric gave great advise..plus I can tell, Taylor, you are someone that is serious about doing the right thing...you will have no problem...

[violet]

Wow, tantric, you could write an advice column

[lunamor]

Tantric has done a lot of field research eheh

[bayridgebabe]

OMG I actually have to agree with tantric for a change, holy cow. I do agree with wnw those 2 places are OK as well. I have to say tantric you really gave Taylor some sound & good advice. Thanx for your input on this one.

[houstoncougar]

exactly where did you lift that advice from or was it field research as luna suggested? hehe Oh, and I agree with WnW either place would not bother me at all.